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Malaysia Poverty Is A Systemic Problem For Singapore…

The Malaysian Government has serious corruption. Plenty of embezzlement, bribery, and money laundering.

People in Malaysia are very poor. Many are struggling to make a living of RM$50 a day (Shophouse Clerk).

I hear spirits from Malaysia complaining that their family has no money. They are actually guardian spirits that visit Singapore by travelling with human family. They come here to work or study.

The poverty areas are actually outside the city areas. People living in these areas have few businesses in which to make a living from — no jobs available. The problem is serious. I had a female university student messaging me from Malaysia, asking me, a small fortune-teller to lend her money. No jobs available in the area.

My uncle, living in Skudai, Johore… his plan is to sell fruits by the roadside. I don’t see any customers for him because the vicinity is remote — ‘ulu’ in Malay.

Suggestion: Singapore Government, maybe you could inform the Good-Side Government of Malaysia of their own population’s struggle? These isolated people actually need direct cash disbursement to their bank accounts. They are dying from poverty. In addition, these remote population can be encouraged to open their own micro-businesses with their direct funds from the Malaysian Government. This would liven up the remote areas. Give people things to buy, sell, and do.

Tell them: the secret is just to print money and inject it into the population’s bank accounts. The idea is to supplement their income so their basic necessities are met. They can then have savings to do micro-business with. This will grow their income significantly — Kickstart their remote area economies.

Government-Funded Micro-Businesses
The little shops or micro-businesses the people will set up in the remote areas, will most likely be unprofitable. But, they are paid by the Malaysian Government to stay open to provide for the people in the area.

Singapore’s Reward
Helping the Malaysian Government solve their remote population’s poverty problem will have incredible karmic blessings for Singapore. We are on the tip of Malaya — our shipping port will flourish, the spiritual quality of our imported water will become wealthy, Singapore’s people in poverty will end — all will begin to flourish and more.

If having a rich country is important, this little move will bring you ultimate rewards. All you have to do is tell Malaysia how to flourish these impoverished areas. Guide them through their implementation. And you will see all this Good Life For Singapore suddenly rush in like a Typhoon.

Better if you contact your Malaysia Ministerial Friends by Message first before sending them your suggestion. This move will really work for Singapore. If it doesn’t, consider it a good deed for Malaysia’s Poor.

Thank You and Good Luck!

Shalom,
Halabuth
Angel Reader
Magic Cross
www.magiccross.sg

A Short Analysis Written To The Singapore Government About Restoring Payscale.

Dear Government of Singapore,

Salaries in Singapore Were Reduced To Half in 2006, in an effort to make businesses profitable on Profit & Loss Statements. The middle managements’ fear during Recession was that a Negative Business Cashflow would result in broken rice bowls for staff. 

My Father’s GM General Manager’s Salary was $24K in the past — 1995; the General Manager’s Pay at CGG Veritas was cut in half to $16K in 2006. My Father is retired now. It’s up to me to make money….

There was an invisible paycut of minus -50% salary to survive the Recession in 2007? But… they haven’t restored the population’s pay to full payscale. 

You must restore the salary payscale. People are underpaid for tooooo loooong. Furthermore, most businesses have gone GA Government-Assisted Business Model to Survive. 

Payscale to the people should be restored. Double salary (a full 100% instead of 50%) is the minimum required to survive a family comfortably.

Why Don’t Be Afraid To Pay The Population

If you double peoples’ salaries, they spend their money at your Nation’s businesses. Money flows from the peoples’ expenditures back into the businesses’ bank accounts. Usually business profit returns are 25 to 100 times the cost of the product. When businesses pay $2 for an item, they sell it for $50. Business profit on the sale is $48. Businesses earn the populations’ money back at a leveraged amount. No matter what you pay the people, the money just flows back into the businesses’ bank accounts.

Singapore suffers from an ageing population and a lack of cash for sustenance. To keep the population affluent and to keep the economy flowing, restore the recession payscale back to 100% — Use Statutory Money Rights.   

How Much Do Money Do We Need?

Double Salary is the minimum that Singaporeans need to cover family costs. Do a study. Case Study: Two working parents supporting 12 family members. 

12 Family Members To Support On A Dual Income of $5.6K. Only two adults working. Parents and Grandparents are retired.

Dual Income Family:
Husband: Supervisor $3K (Warehousing)
Wife: Sales Assistant $2.6K (Supermarket) 

12 Family Members Surviving On $5.6K

My Own Grand Father & Grandmother	Grand In-Laws: Her Grandfather & Grandmother
My Father & Mother	Parents In-Law: Her Father & Mother
My Wife & Myself	Utility Bills, Food, Education, Transportation; Medical Care
Our Two Children: Boyboy & Ah Girl	Total: 12 Family Members and a bank balance that is dropping every month.

Conclusion: “Money No Enough!” At minimum… double the salaries to cover family costs comfortably. Double Salary: $5.6K x 2 = $10.6K can cover 12 family members well.

Three Actions To Consider:

1. Government Mandate to businesses to double salaries — Restoring Singapore Payscale to 100%.
   
2. GA Government-Assisted Business Support for all businesses big and small. (Mine included. :p)
   
3. Old people who are retired should be given Staple Citizen Credits or Pensions to cover living costs like basic necessities. Bad situation: Old with no income and having no offspring.
   
   “Ai eia mai pia… wa jin aei eiaaaa….” (To Succeed, Don’t Have Sexual Promiscuity, I Can Succeed!) Now… I have no children… to take care of me…. 

These are the struggles of the people I know from helping many through my Angel Consultation sessions. Please consider these truths, Singapore Government. The People Thank You!

Shalom,
Halabuth
Angel Reader
Magic Cross
www.magiccross.sg

Conclusion: During Recessions, companies execute their own paycuts to save money to survive. After Recession, they neglect to restore salary payscales. The people are suffering from a lack of sustenance because of ruthless paycutting and retrenchment without payscale restoration. This behaviour was evident in several world recessions already. Government Fiscal Stimulus is required to restore payscale.

Appendix A: Recession Paycuts 2006 – 2009 (hyperlink)

Appendix B: Covid-19 Recession Paycuts 2020 (hyperlink)

A Letter To The Singapore Government About Helping People Afford Things Better….

Dear Singapore Government,

1. People and companies are striving to make more money. 
2. Sales are declining.  People do not have enough money to spend.
3. To make up for lost profits, companies raise the prices of goods.
4. Consumer surplus narrows. The consumer dollar does not stretch as far as before. It becomes harder for families to make ends meet.

I notice prices edging upwards, Government. Gone are the days of the $2.50 plate of chicken rice. Now it’s $3.50 to $5.50 per plate. McDonalds is introducing all kinds of premium burgers, increasing profits by premium product line extension. 

I just ate a New Year’s Dinner at Crystal Jade Restaurant yesterday night. Just me and my wife — $140 SGD. At the doorway menu, you can only see $8.80 to $12.90 meals on their menu. But once you step in, sit down and order… it is $16, $20, $28, $45 and more. Too embarrassed to step out. Want to show we can afford it. We ate six items. Bust! 

Why did Crystal Jade ‘Bait & Switch’ us? Not enough customers. Need to have high prices to make up for lost profits. 

Many companies are raising prices in a down economy. People are getting less pay, prices of goods are going up to cover a lack of sales; this means you are having less money and have to pay higher prices — harder to make ends meet. Consumer surplus is narrowing.

What To Do?

Government, two ways to tackle this: 

One, Print Statutory Money to increase salaries and make direct deposits into peoples’ bank accounts. Pay businesses millions to increase workers’ salaries by thousands of dollars per person. This will really work. The people will feel instant relief. 

Two, Price Controls upon the prices of goods, food, and services islandwide. Hold prices down. Bring back the $2.50 chicken rice! Pay Singapore businesses to hold their prices down.

This can really work. Consumer surplus will increase. It will feel like there is more than enough money to cover expenses. People will be happy and provided for. Companies will sigh relief as their relief funds come in. Hot dogs will be $1 again. Ice cream will be $0.50 again. Even kids can afford that. Price controls.     

Use this idea, Singapore Government. Narrow the surplus gap by raising income and pressing prices down. Use your magic money! Hit the right target with your dollars, okay? Raise income, press down prices. Good luck!

Sincerely,
Halabuth
Angel Reader
Magic Cross
www.magiccross.sg

Money is actually flowing out of the country. It is going to foreign farmers when we import food produce, going to foreign oil companies like Australia and Arabia when we bring in oil; going to foreign manufacturing like China and USA when we buy goods, paying logistics for our maritime industry and much more import activity. 

Our country’s domestic economy is being depleted by foreign expenditure. The country’s economic system is getting poor. There is much less money circulating in the economy than before. Imagine a river that is running dry… the aquatic plants and fish are going to suffocate. People complain of being paid too little to support their families. Businesses are struggling to make ends meet. They rely on Government Handouts to support the business payouts. If not, the business cannot sustain the cost of employee salaries and rental plus other overheads like product stocking and shipping costs.

Although the Singapore Government helps businesses by giving them financial support, it is still thin compared to what other countries give their businesses. In Australia, businesses are granted more than enough money by the Australian Government to give their staff almost double the pay of what Singapore staff make. Australia is PRINTING MONEY to fuel its economy. AND everyone is doing fine. The Australian Government owes the country trillions of dollars, but they have no fear in owing themselves money. There is money circulating in their economy. It is FAT. They have no fear of deflating the economy due to the costs of importing. They just PRINT. Rumour has it that they also WIPE OFF THEIR DEBT.

If Singapore can just PUMP WATER into its DRY RIVER, all the fauna and flora will flourish — the businesses and people will flourish. PRINT. Combat the dry economy. Then Wipe Off Your Debt. No one is watching, Singapore Government. CHEAT to Survive.

Idea: Can you PRINT MONEY and WIPE DEBT legally? How can you make it happen?

Sincerely,
Halabuth
Angel Reader
Magic Cross | www.magiccross.sg

Finally we come to the magical topic of love… one which I’ve been avoiding for a long time because it’s really complicated. It may take a man 1/3rd of his natural life just to figure out what women want. 

Well, fortunately after banging my head on the wall for so many years, I’ve finally gained some insight to see past the surface complications – puppy love, teenage crushes, love triangles, adulterous affairs, chemistry, compatibility, trust, idealized love, ‘the One’, third parties, break-ups, make-ups, threesomes, lust instead of love, and a whole plethora of factors which make this one of the hardest areas of life to set straight.

I can’t do justice to this topic with just one article… so I think I’ll split the topic over a series. I’m also not very tactful when it comes to love – I’m the hard-headed male who comes bursting onto the scene with flowers, champagne, chocolates, and special gifts. So let me talk to you about this from my heart, in the best way I know how.

What I see as the most common problems people are having with love are:

1. Not being able to find a partner.
2. Not being able to find a suitable partner.
3. Not being able to hold on to a suitable partner.

Let’s tackle these problems one by one and see whether we can find answers…

Problem 1: Not being able to find a partner

Many people have the idea that ‘men should make the first move’. Heck, I believe that’s what has been ingrained in most men’s minds. So men are taught that they have to chase the women they want; they have to romance her, buy her flowers, write poetry, open doors, take her to dinner etc. And the act of doing so will cause her to fall in love with them. (Now don’t grin ladies… you must understand that men really need to know the truth about this.) Ordinary guys like us, truly believe we can WIN a woman’s heart this way. But that is sadly not the case…. How many times have we guys had our romantic advances rejected? Many times! And what was the reason she gave? That’s right, “you’re not my type!” This is worth repeating… *YOU’RE NOT HER TYPE*! 

What men need to understand is that just as how they select women by their looks before deciding to approach, women are conscientiously selecting their men. But not always by his looks… women have a more evolved sense selecting an ideal partner, which takes into account personality, social status, intelligence, humour, entertainment ability and very important – accessibility (the man has to be within reach for her to grab hold of him). Each woman has her own preference and her own image of an ideal man. Some like their men tall; some like short, some like Adonis features – chiselled body, square jaw; some like their men to be big cuddly teddy bears. One woman’s fruit is another woman’s poison.

Being men, what we have to realize is that a woman will love whomever she wants to love – she makes the choice. The idea that you can ‘romance her to win her heart’ is a false idea spun by fairytales and Hollywood magic. Ladies don’t throw hot water on me yet… let me prove this point with a simple visualization.

Imagine… you arrive at work in the morning to find a bouquet of flowers sitting on your desk, a little note says, “You are the only woman for me – Love, your secret admirer.” After lunch, a gift-wrapped package appears on your desk. You carefully unwrap it. Inside lies a box of the most exquisite chocolates you have ever tasted! The little note reads, “Dessert for you, my sweet.” By now, your curiosity is burning, “Who is this mystery man sending me all these lovely gifts? Could it be James from marketing? That suave Adonis hunk… I’d sure like to tear my meat hooks into him; or maybe Alfred from accounting? That sweet gentleman… always brightens up my day with a laugh. Oh I’m dying to know who it is!” So which one is it? It’s neither! It’s Toad-Man sitting in the next cubicle! He who snorts out his boogers and eats them back down; he who stuffs himself like there is no tomorrow; he who leers at you each time you pass his cubicle; he who keeps pornographic magazines under his desk with playmates he claims you share a remarkable resemblance with. Can you love him? Maybe if you try really, really hard. But why bother when there is James down the corridor and Alfred in the next section? So I rest my case… Women want to be romanced, but ONLY by men they like and desire.

When men say, “I can’t find a girlfriend.” What they’re really saying is, “I’ve not been able to approach a woman I like who finds me attractive.” When women say, “I can’t find a boyfriend.” It means almost the same thing – “I’ve not been approached by a guy I like who finds me attractive.” You see, the dilemma is the same for both sexes. We’re just not approaching members of the opposite sex whom we find attractive. A week ago I received this email message from a friend:

[Used with permission]

—–Original Message—–
From: xxx xxx xxxx [mailto:xxxxxxxxxxx@hotmail.com] 
Sent: Wednesday, June 21, 2006 1:06 AM
To: truth@lancism.com
Subject: relationships

hi rongzheng

i saw what you have posted on your website very interesting and indulged in what you have posted. Moreover, I was quite surprised with you have wrote in the june edition of snag, you really impressed me with what you have wrote about cohesive relationships. It seem like your wisdom and knowledge have reached a new profound level… recently i have encountered a problem. Maybe perhaps you can provide me a solution or ways to tackle this issue

i got to know this gal at my workplace, we know each other after i managed to get for her some stuff at staff price at my workplace. we exchanged nos, and everthing started off very well. we talked a lot in our phone calls, sms each other often untill one particular incident that caused everything to turn… well a bit sour.. one of my colleague managed to call her and tell her that i missed her. OMG!! I was shocked. i immediately apologised to her and she managed to get over it, but then things seem to have died down after since, now we rarely talk or sms, even so, now [when] i walked past her area, she turned her head away and don’t look at me..oh man am i so depressed about this

well i do have a small crush on her but then things turned out this way, i guess she might be avoiding me or don’t want to talk to me..

hai. could you provide me a solution or anything to rescue this complicated issue??

may thks xxxxxxx

My reply follows below:

—–Original Message—–
From: Lance Ong [mailto:truth@lancism.com] 
Sent: Wednesday, June 21, 2006 4:32 AM
To: ‘xxx xxx xxxx’
Subject: RE: relationships

GREETINGS! MY FRIEND, MR XXXXXXX!

I see you have are having a vexing issue to solve. No problem, you’ve asked the right person! I will not only tell you why she is behaving this way, I will also tell you what you should do to regain her interest. In Singapore earlier this year, I have conducted a series of workshops on romance & dating. Many of our participants have finally been able to date the opposite sex, and some have already gotten attached.

You see… in every relationship, there comes a point in time where the stakes must be raised if you are ever going to get closer to each other. By the fact that the two of you were already talking a lot on the phone and SMSing each other often, is a good sign which shows there is mutual interest. Normally, a guy in that position who follows the correct sequence has a high chance of hooking up with the girl. The critical moment was when your colleague called her to tell her you miss her. If you think from a girl’s perspective… someone telling me that a guy I like actually misses me, is a good thing! It’s a very good thing because it’s obvious that this guy is signaling a romantic interest in me. But when you called her to apologize, it appears to her that you have withdrawn your declaration of romantic interest. 

To most girls, this is equivalent to a mild form of rejection – she was probably disappointed. What you should have done at that point in time, is pretend as if nothing happened. Continue to smile and chat with her as normal, until she brings it up. If she does not, then you let it slide. But if she does one day stop you and ask about what your colleague said (this is the moment of truth), you can smile and be playful about it, but in the end you must admit you like her. This is called taking a Social Risk. You are putting your ego and reputation on the line for rejection. Women love it. They like it when a man they have interest in, is bold enough to say that he likes her.

Her current behaviour is a natural social response when there is tension in a relationship. She probably can feel that you have interest in her, but since you have officially signaled that you have no interest, she’s confused and doesn’t know how to move the relationship forward. At this stage, only you can make the difference between life and death of the romance. You must be strong, be bold, and be flirtatious. Be willing to take a social risk. The next time you pass her desk and she looks away (using her hair to block, right?), you must deliberately break through this ice-shield by stopping in front of her desk, calling her name, and initiating a chat. You would be wise to bring a gift. This is a clear indicator of romantic interest. Simply start with a regular chat:

You: “Hey [her name], how are doing?”
Her: “Good/fine.” (smiles)
You: “Hey you know what, I’ve only got a minute, but I need a lady’s opinion about something.”
Her: “Sure! What?”
You: “Do you think a man who is bold about what he wants to get in life, is more attractive to women?”

Here you have initiated a discussion about an interesting topic. Actually, any topic works, as long as you get her talking. The goal is to break the ice and warm-up the relationship. Keep your conversation going for as long as you can, switching to other topics as necessary.

If you reach a lull in your conversation (and I assure you, you will), say “Hey, I’ve got something for you.” Then magically pull out your gift. (Make sure it’s gift-wrapped – that’s what makes it special.) Say, “I was passing by this shop and… [Explain why you got the gift]” or “I made it myself!” There are thousands of things you could give her, but what’s most important is that you’re sure she’ll like it. Proper gift-giving shows that you remember what she likes, and that you have good judgement, attention to detail, and are generous.

This simple bold act is enough to spark the fires of romance. But you’ll need to keep building on this. A fire with no fuel eventually burns out. You may be thinking, “C’mon Lance, this is not my style!” I understand the fear. All men have it. But those who can overcome their own demons and face the knife of rejection will be pleasantly surprised to find that the girl of their dreams is happy that he was brave enough to do so.

Good luck, my friend!

Sincerely,
Lance (RongZheng)

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(In the Garden of Eden)
Eve: Adam, do you love me? 
Adam: Who else?

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Every day you go out, you see hundreds of attractive people. If you’re single, doesn’t it make you wonder how are you ever going to find the one that’s meant for you? As a hot-blooded male in my younger days, I used to think, “I could go with her…or her… or her. Arrgh! How do I decide?” As a man grows older, if he is fortunate enough, he learns how to look beyond exterior beauty because all women are beautiful nowadays, aren’t they? So it can give a man one hell of a headache to identify a woman who is truly compatible with him in mind, body, and soul. Women understand that men are born to think with their smaller heads. So being the intelligent creatures they are – they use visual stimulus to appeal to the male instinct. Thus a man, who does not make fine distinctions into character and personality, may find that many women appeal to him. But if he learns to go a step further and say, “Yes, she’s attractive to me. But what’s she all about?” Then he goes beyond seeing women as visual objects, and more as people,

Desire is bad for you?

The attraction between men and women is biological, it is inherited and it is unstoppable. You don’t need to make an excuse for your desire. One reason why we do not approach those who are attractive to us is because we are religiously and culturally programmed to believe desire is ‘baaaad’. A pious man who has the opportunity to meet an attractive woman may tell himself, “No! I must not give in to temptation! The desire is too strong!” But really, it’s just an excuse for himself because he’s afraid of rejection. And unless he can come to terms with his desire – see it as a guiding force, rather than an urge to be oppressed – he may never end up with a woman he truly wants. Members of the opposite sex, who are more genetically compatible with you, will spur a greater sense of desire in you. It’s natural. If you suppress the biological instinct when selecting a partner… you probably won’t have a happy sex life.

Men and Women: Different Creatures?

People like to believe that men and women are really different, but by nature they aren’t. We grow up imagining the opposite sex is some great mystery because everything about them seems different, and so we think it’s difficult to talk to the opposite sex. But really, men and women are very similar. They are anatomically different, but it’s not that big a difference. The human sexual organs are simply the inverse of each other. Penis and clitoris are made from the same embryological tissue. What forces the difference is the action of testosterone. Male seeds hang outside (testicles), while female seeds are kept inside (ovaries). It’s just one big reversal.

“Okay then,” you say. “What about the difference in the way men and women think? They don’t like the same things; they don’t talk the same, walk the same or wear the same clothes! (Well… actually some do.)”

Although men and women act differently, that’s not so much a biological instinct as it is a cultural role they are taught to play. Men don’t automatically love soccer, beer drinking, or going to the gym – they are culturally programmed to adopt these behaviours because it brings them greater social approval. “A man who does not watch soccer is not ‘one of the boys’; a man who does not drink beer is not real man; a man who’s muscular earns the respect of his peers and is more attractive to women.” These are beliefs so deeply ingrained into us, that most people will tell you it’s a fact. Just like how women learn about the importance of being beautiful from magazines, television, and friends. What creates such a great difference in thinking and behaviour is not nature, but the enculturation of newborns into their gender roles. Blue for boys, pink for girls; toss the boys around, but be gentle with the girls. From young, everything about our culture teaches the sexes to differentiate themselves. From the clothes we wear to whether we can fart in public.

Being too focused on the exterior of a person, you only see the physical and cultural difference – the accessories and behaviours created to differentiate the sexes. But look past the surface and you’ll see that each person, male or female, is subject to the same laws of emotion, logic, reason, and motivation. They have wants and desires, dislikes and hates; they communicate through language; they have two eyes, one nose, one mouth, two ears, ten fingers and ten toes. They have many times more in common than they do in difference. So it is a folly to believe it is difficult to relate to the opposite sex. Just talk to them as you would any casual person, and you’ll see that even the most attractive person is easy to chat with.

Now that brings us to an important point.

Physical Attraction is Not Enough

Many people are drawn together only by physical attraction, and there is little compatibility to make the relationship worthwhile (I thank our reader, Phyllis McBryar, for this). In response, I quote Nikki Giovanni, the African-American poet, who wrote:

“Most of us love from our need to love, not because we find someone deserving.”

And that’s the case for many of us, isn’t it? The need to be loved is a basic human desire. We don’t really need it, but we want it. In fact, we may want it so much, we don’t screen hard enough for character and compatibility. And that is where we fall into a trap because once two people become intimate, it creates strong emotional binds that can be difficult to let go of. It follows the old Chinese saying, “You can pick it up, but you can’t put it down.” And that’s why we must be selective of whom we choose to be intimate with. What may look like a happy, well-adjusted person may turn out to be a nightmare in disguise. And I have seen some nightmares in my days, both male and female (no, I’m not bi-sexual).

*In the Mail Bag*

Last week we had a chat with Mr X about his office-love relationship. This week we have a Mr Y who writes in asking about whether he should confess his feelings for a girl who already has a boyfriend. His original email and my reply below:

—–Original Message—–
From: xxxxxx[mailto:xxxxxxxx@xxxxxxxxxxx] 
Sent: Friday, June 30, 2006 3:40 PM
To: truth@lancism.com
Subject: Question for you.

Dear Lance

I saw your website and saw that you gave advices to the troubled hearts. Can you also advise me on a problem I have?

Is there such a thing call ‘Permanent Pain’? I met this girl in a school, (where she works) and we used to chat on MSN often. She is pretty and also has a caring heart.

I read your article on All About Love, and I think, like you said in the article, I think she is interested in me that time. Although I knew her because I was checking on a course, and she is friendly and helpful. But even after that, she still keep in contact with me, and is still friendly and helpful even if it is not about the course that we are talking. We exchanged msn and mobile no.

We still keep in touch after she left the job. She has been busy with a study course and it is difficult to arrange dates. Now that her course is completed, I think I can work on this relationship. And I think she still likes me, because she will respond to my sms, email promptly, and she always help me deal with problems at work or personal.

However, I learnt that she now has a boyfriend, I feel a sharp pain in my chest. I know I still like her. In your opinion, do I still stand a chance? I am sure she is the right one for me. Do you think I should take the ‘social risk’ and confess my feelings for her? I know I miss the golden opportunity, but I am confident I can care and love her throughout her life-time.

Also, I tried to sound her out in our conversation, what she thinks about me. She gives good feedback. When I asked her if she thinks I will make a good boyfriend or husband, she replied that I would be an ideal partner. Doesn’t that means that I am her ideal type of partner?

I appreciate if you can help me solve this problem.

Thanks you

Mr Y

—–Original Message—–
From: Lance Ong [mailto:truth@lancism.com] 
Sent: Friday, June 30, 2006 6:40 PM
To: ‘xxxxxxxx’

Subject: RE: Question for you. Dear Mr Y.

I understand that sharp pain feeling. It feels like you are about to lose something very important. Although we mentioned in the previous article that taking a social risk is necessary, timing and social restrictions also apply. Sad to say, when a girl has a serious boyfriend, there is the bind of an ‘exclusive mating contract’. If her boyfriend finds out what you’re saying to her, or chances upon one of your romantic messages, he has every right to pull her away and make her promise never to see you again… As gentlemen, we must respect the social contract of a steady relationship.

What you can do, however, is to stay in contact with her and only use subtle gestures to communicate your interest. You’re lucky because there still seems to be a romantic attraction between the two of you. But you have to be careful because you’re treading a fine line here. Never overtly tell her how you feel about her while she’s still with her boyfriend. One of the thoughts that may go through her mind is, “Can’t you see that I have a boyfriend?” And her boyfriend may think, “Can’t you see she’s my girlfriend!” It does not reflect well on a man’s character to approach another man’s girlfriend.

However, since you are sincere, stick close and keep talking to her. Just because she has a boyfriend does not mean she’s not interested in you. As you’ll see in the next article, women choose the men they want to be with. If she decides she likes you more than her boyfriend, she will switch when the opportunity arises. But she has to wait for her boyfriend to slip-up (make a mistake) before she can break-up with him. If she just dumped him without good reason (e.g. to be with another man), she would have to bear the psychological guilt of being an adulterer. And nobody wants to be the defaulting party in a serious relationship. We always say it’s the other party’s fault, and we’re the victim. Plus you must also consider that she probably has a lot of deep emotions tied up with her boyfriend. It takes time to let go of the binds we create.

So my strategy for you is simple:

1. Keep close contact (under the umbrella of friendship)
2. Hint your interest with subtle gestures
3. Wait for her to break-up with her boyfriend before you admit anyfeelings for her.

What is a subtle gesture? You’ve demonstrated one already – you asked her in a conversation whether she thinks you’ll make a good boyfriend or husband – very smart. Use exactly those kinds of questions. All the other actions will happen naturally since you are already interested in her – e.g. looking at her a little too long, the increased tear fluid in your eyes when she’s nearby (makes your eyes shine), and the energy you’ll give off when she’s around.

I believe all is fair in love and war, but it takes two hands to clap. Two people have to choose each other. I’m worried that if her boyfriend is really good, you might have a long wait in front of you. I suggest you follow a controversial but effective philosophy: “Let go of that which you desire the most and allow it to come to you.” By grasping too hard for that which we want, it slips out of our hands and into the arms of another. What you should focus on is building yourself into an attractor rather than an attacker. Become the kind of man who fulfils her image of ‘ideal husband/boyfriend’, and she will naturally want to be with you – that’s being an attractor. On the other hand, if you grasp really hard for what you want, thinking of ways to win her over from her boyfriend, that’s being an attacker. I always recommend attract over attack because in the end, women choose the men they want to be with. So if she really loves her boyfriend, it doesn’t matter how hard you attack. You stand a better chance using attract. That brings to mind a good question you can ask her, “What do you look for in an ideal guy?” Follow what she tells you; it’s the roadmap to her heart.

Wishing you luck in love,
Lance Ong

—–Original Message—–
From: xxxxxxxx [mailto:xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx] 
Sent: Saturday, July 01, 2006 11:27 AM 
To: truth@lancism.com
Subject: RE: Question for you.

Dear Lance

Thank you for reply my email.

You can use my article, and please remove my particulars, especially my name. I think she reads your website, because I think she is your friend.

One more question, from your experience, how many chances do I have if I wait for her to break up with her boyfriend? Your approach is more passive, does that mean that I may have to wait very long, or what if her boyfriend propose to marry her?

Since love is fair, as long as she is not married, she still can choose right? Then I must fight for my own happiness also.

I admit, in our conversation, I have the urge to try to prove her boyfriend not good enough for her.

I really like her, and each day, when we talk in MSN, I get to like her more. I am very sure that I will not like someone else. Actually there is a girl in my workplace who shows interest in me, but I can’t bring myself to like her, as I already have someone in my heart.

She is not meeting up with me, but she is a [occupation removed], so can I use this factor to ask her out? I think she is more willing to meet up with someone who needs help. And I think that is the only way I can find reason to meet up with her. Maybe I can also tell her my give problem, but not telling her she is the girl I like.

Yours sincerely Mr Y

—–Original Message—–
From: Lance Ong [mailto:truth@lancism.com] 
Sent: Sunday, July 02, 2006 4:38 AM
To: ‘xxxxxxxx’
Subject: RE: Question for you.

Hmm… Mr Y, your situation is a tricky one. If you’re talking about who I think you’re talking about, then her boyfriend loves her very much. Of course that does not mean you cannot try to woo her… but be careful because the one you risk hurting the most, is yourself. I believe in life, the perfect partner is not one you win over, but one who chooses you and loves you with all her heart. Still, I encourage you to go for what you want. In the end, she’ll have to decide who she wants to be with.

Good luck Mr Y.

Sincerely, Lance Ong

—–Original Message—–
From: xxxxxxxx [mailto:xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx] 
Sent: Sunday, July 02, 2006 7:52 PM
To: truth@lancism.com
Subject: RE: Question for you.

Thank you for your encouragement. After talking to you, I am now more confident with this problem. I am sure I will love her more than her boyfriend. I will follow your advice which you told me on the first mail, that will make sure that she choose me in the end. She will know that I am the right choice for her.

You know, some friend I talk to before you, all don’t understand my feelings for her. All of them just tell me to forget about her, and not give up the whole forest for a tree (in chinese). Thank you for your time and advice. I am now more confident and know what exactly to do.

I take the chance to wish you all the best for everything you do, and be successful.

Best wishes Mr Y

Many people are able to get into relationships. And many are able to attract partners who are suitable for them, physically and mentally. But for many people, their relationships do not last much more than 3 months…. This is a shocking truth of the dating world. Why does this happen? Why can’t we make it last? I’ll give you three reasons:

1. Treating a Relationship as a Transaction

You cannot be calculative when it comes to love. Counting who did what for whom leads to the death of generosity. Theoretically speaking, there’s a hidden universal law guiding human relations, which is, “If you stop giving, you stop getting.” And if that’s the way the law is, them we must not stop giving or else the relationship will die. So if you are calculative, you will count to a point where you will say, “Yep, that’s enough. I’ve given my fair share. Now it’s your turn.” But your partner may not feel it’s their turn yet. So don’t calculate. Keep giving generously and you partner will return your love when the time is right.

2. Not Being Patient or Sensitive Enough

Relationships are delicate because human emotions are delicate. You can bring the strongest relationship to its knees with a single quarrel. You don’t even need to do it in person; over the telephone will do.

You can end a good relationship with words that hurt, no meeting needed. So if you treasure your relationship, never blow your top. Your partner deserves your best behaviour. And the more love you invest in them, the more they will love you for it.

3. Idealistic Demands

Some people are more idealistic than others. They have a vision in their minds of how they want their ideal partner to be – and they will not compromise. Usually in life, the partners we end up with do not meet our original criteria. Maybe she doesn’t have the perfect figure or maybe he’s not exactly Prince Charming. But in the end we still choose this person. Why so? It’s because our criteria have changed. By living long enough, you see different kinds of people. And you will start editing your criteria of what you want in a partner, circling those qualities which are important, and mentally scratching out those which are not. So if a person has a list of rigid, uncompromising qualities that they follow to the dot, they might just kick out the partner that was right for them.

If it were so easy to make a relationship last, our divorce rates would be lower. Even if people do not fall into the three traps listed above, there are other problems such as the possibility of meeting someone more attractive (high chance). What should you do in such a case? Here’s a principle to guide you:

A great love relationship is not something you find, but something you build and commit yourself to.

There are tons of beautiful people in the world and many who are physically more attractive than your partner. To some people, the grass is always greener on the other side. So what do they do? They hop over to the neighbour’s lawn! But then the lawn doesn’t seem so green anymore because they see the weeds of the person’s personality. But it looks like there’s a greener lawn next door, so they hop again! They do their partner hopping, dating and exchanging in search of the greenest lawn, but they’ll never find it because a beautiful relationship, like a beautiful garden, must be tended to and cared for. You can have ‘happily forever after’ with the partner you choose, but you must commit yourself to it. Without commitment, nothing lasts.

To sustain love, two people have to choose each other. If either partner defaults or is unsure, the whole relationship falls apart. It doesn’t matter how much you love the other person, if they do not return your love. This reminds me of those Chinese drama serials where they are fond of saying, “Ai Qing Shi Bu Neng Mian Qiang De” – translated it means ‘you can’t force love’. And this will be the time when the male suitor will grip his head and cry, “Why! Why?!!” Then he has no alternative, but to drown his sorrows in drink, and maybe get knocked down by a truck. Then the girl will visit him in hospital, where with his dying breath he whispers his last words of undying love… then he dies.

An Uncommitted Partner

Sometimes you might find that although you are ready to commit, your partner doesn’t want to settle. They may be on the lookout for the ideal person who can fulfill their whims and fantasies… some idealistic vision of what a lover should be. Many people believe that they can hold on to their partner and make them stay. But this isn’t true. If your partner wants to go, they will. A lover is not an inanimate object – you can’t ‘hold on’ to them – they are human beings with free will and dreams and ideals of their own. What you can do is realize that each person seeks their own happiness. Sometimes it may be with you, at other times it may not. And if you still care for this person, the best you can do is allow them to follow their dreams. Gracefully step aside and wish them well. The right partner will come along for you one day.

Case Study – “Mr Y”

Last week we talked to Mr Y about his hope of winning over a girl who already has a boyfriend. This week, let’s flip it and talk about what it’s like to be the person who’s about to lose their partner.

A reader wrote in regarding Mr Y’s case. She suggests that we put ourselves in the boyfriend’s shoes and see whether we like someone trying to break up our happiness. The reader suggests that Mr Y should take an altruistic approach, where he is happy the girl he loves is happy and well-looked after. I didn’t want to agree (an urge to protect my client)… but after serious contemplation, I yielded because the reader has a point. The easiest way for Mr Y to be happy is to realize that he cares for the girl even though she’s chosen to be with someone else. In a way, Mr Y is a martyr who sacrifices his desire to be with her, for her happiness. Could a man do that if he loves a woman? I’m sure he could, but I doubt she would even notice his sacrifice.

“Dagger in the Heart”

Mr Y said he felt a sharp stabbing pain in his heart, when he found out that the woman he loved had recently found a boyfriend. I said, “I understand that sharp pain feeling.” Everyone who has been on the verge of losing a romantic partner has felt this sharp stabbing pain. If you haven’t, then you have not loved with all your heart.

The more you love a person; the more you care about him or her, the greater the feeling of being stabbed in the heart when they betray or cheat your love. Although the normal reaction to being dumped is to go ballistic and tell your lover what a piece of trash they are, your heart feels like a knife has sliced through it. This heart-pain is there because buried under your anger, there is love.

When our partner betrays our love, there are two immediate feelings – the part that feels cheated, and the part that still cares. On one hand we hate them for hurting us, and we want to hurt them back. On the other hand, we still have feelings for them, so just the thought of breaking up is hurting our soul. So what you need to realize is the deep stabbing pain you feel in your heart is not the pain of rejection,but the pain of trying to hate someone you love. Only when you can admit that you still care, and stop trying to hate them, the two parts dissolve and become one whole. The pain disappears.

If you want to find an ideal partner, you first have to BE an ideal partner. Give your partner first-class treatment – be infinitely patient, loving, and giving. This doesn’t mean you do not settle differences, but that you do it in a calm and gentle manner. Don’t be calculative about giving. Give with all your heart and trust that your partner appreciates the love you give. They will return it to you when you least expect it. Realize that some of your demands are idealistic and unnecessary, drop them or change them. And finally, strive to become the best you can be in mind, body, and spirit; socially, financially, and emotionally because the better you become as a person, the better a partner you will attract.

Good luck and may you build the love life of your dreams.

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by David L. Weatherford

Have you ever watched kids on a merry-go-round, or listened to rain slapping the ground?

Ever followed a butterfly’s erratic flight, or gazed at the sun fading into the night?

You better slow down, don’t dance so fast, time is short, the music won’t last.

Do you run through each day on the fly,
When you ask “How are you?” do you hear the reply?

When the day is done, do you lie in your bed,
with the next hundred chores running through your head?

You better slow down, don’t dance so fast, time is short, the music won’t last.

Ever told your child, we’ll do it tomorrow, and in your haste not see his sorrow?

Ever lost touch, let a good friendship die, cause you never had time to call and say “hi”?

You better slow down, don’t dance so fast, time is short, the music won’t last.

When you run so fast to get somewhere, you miss half the fun of getting there.

When you worry and hurry through your day, it’s like an unopened gift thrown away.

Life is not a race, so take it slower,
Hear the music before your song is over.

If You Want to Be Happy, Remember to Smell the Flowers

I like to walk slowly. And it’s okay to walk at a relaxed pace. As long as you know where you’re going, sooner or later, you’re going to get there… Just like The Tortise and the Hare. The Tortise got to the finish-line first, even though he was moving slowly. The Hare had the speed, but he was running all over the place. Being goal-oriented is important, being in a hurry and rush is not. You can still win the race, and enjoy the scenery, as long as you’re walking in a straight line.

Half the value of life is in the Journey; the Experience. So slow down and smell the flowers. David L. Weatherford’s poem is a beautiful rendition of this philosophy.

Do you believe in ghosts? What about spirits or guardian angels? There are invisible forces in this universe we cannot comprehend. They affect our lives in unseen ways, altering your luck, good fortune, or answering your prayers. If you look at it from an enlightened view, we too are spirits. Just that we are a spiritual soul in a material body. We are the most powerful kind of spirit because the body allows us to directly affect and make changes to the world around us. In death, we return to the spiritual form from whence we came. So there is nothing to fear. This life is a rare gift that you can only enjoy for a brief period of time. But there will be another, and another, and another….

SPIRITS – The World We Cannot See

Do you believe in fate? Is there destiny? Is life predetermined or do you have total power to do what you want? Many people who are atheist (non-religious) will tell you there is no fate, no destiny, and no ghosts. I used to believe that too… But nowadays, I can no longer deny the existence of some higher power or spiritual intelligence that oversees us.

I believe spirits are everywhere, around us, right here, right now. There are many types of spirits. The best ones for us are our Guardian Spirits. They are the ones who protect us and bless us with good fortune. Wherever you go, they will follow. Sometimes even nudging you to notice something that could be useful, or that you need.

Spirits can transfer from person-to-person. Mostly by touch. When a priest blesses you, they touch your forehead and say a prayer. When the Dalai Lama blesses a visitor, he holds their heads in his hands and touches his forehead to theirs. If a friend gives you a pat on the back, and suddenly you feel good, perhaps a noble spirit has joined you.

We must always watch out for places or people where evil spirits live. By evil, I don’t only mean those who kill or hurt. It also includes those lustful spirits or depressive spirits who roam the earth looking for hosts through which they can live their desires. For example, a man visits a red-light district. There, he engages prostitutes and walks the alleys. Now, a red-light area is spiritually unclean. Many lustful spirits already roam the area or are attached to the host persons there. When the man beds the prostitute, the physical contact allows the transfer of spirits between himself and the prostitute. Even when the man leaves the red-light district, the lustful spirit is with him. It clings to him. He is now its new host.

Spirits can influence our thoughts, causing you to think in certain ways. And because of the way you are thinking, you will take action on those thoughts. And thus your results. The man infected with the lustful spirit, will keep having the urge to return to the red-light district and go places where he can find satisfaction. It will play with his mind, showing images, sounds, and feelings of sexual pleasure. A person infected with the Yin Devil of Lust, has a purple aura between the eyebrows and around the eyes. The under eyes will also show dark eye bags due to sexual depletion and the loss of Yang energy.

Have you ever wondered why you exist – in this lifetime, under these circumstances? Why were you born into this family and not another? Is there a greater purpose to your life? The answers lie in understanding your soul’s role in living this life and many others.

What is the Soul?

There are a few meanings for the word Soul, but we are focusing on that part of you called your higher consciousness or your spirit, the celestial energy that imbues your body and gives you unique desires and a destiny.

Destiny comes from the Middle English word, destine, which means to determine beforehand. It implies that there is a specific destination intended – a purpose, if you will. Your soul inhabits this body because there are lessons it must learn in this lifetime in order for it to evolve to the next level on the Scale of Souls. If it fails to achieve the learning within this lifetime, the lesson will continue in the next lifetime and in every subsequent life until the Soul has learnt its lesson.

The Soul’s Purpose

The Soul’s ultimate purpose is to return to God and become part of the whole – the one unified consciousness from which everything came. But before it can do so, it must pass through a series of lessons because it has forgotten who or what it truly is. As a soul passes through more lifetimes and experiences, it matures and begins to understand itself and develops the qualities that are necessary for it to rejoin the whole.

Why It All Began

Now you may begin to ask the question, “Why is there a need for such a dynamic system of evolving souls to their highest level? Why does it exist?” To answer this, I am going to tell you a story. A story about how the universe began…

Billions of years ago, there lived only one being – God. He had no form or shape; no components and no parts. He was all there is; there was nothing else. No space, no stars, no planets… nothing. He felt himself to have great potential, but did not know how or in what way. There was nothing he could compare himself to, there was no relativity. For how would one know that they were pretty if there were no ugly? How would one know what is short if there were no tall? All knowledge is relative – it has to be considered in comparison with something else – without relativity, there can be no true knowing.

So God decided that since there was nothing to compare himself to on the outside, he would split himself up and see what is on the inside. His goal was self-discovery; to know himself. And thus occurred what we theorize today to be The Big Bang: infinite mass and density exploding across all directions, creating space and the known universe. As the mass scattered, so did the Soul of God. You are part of that mass, and therefore part of God’s Soul.

Who You Really Are

You are more a soul than a body. You have lived more lives than just this one. And there will be many more to come. Your life is riddled with lessons, major and minor. They come in the form of obstacles and challenges. Sometimes you will swiftly overcome them. At other times, suffering will be your greatest teacher. Whether you overcome an obstacle or suffer because of it, the ultimate purpose is growth and learning. Once you have mastered the lesson, the obstacle is no longer necessary and will disappear.

Why You Are Here

You are here to experience the creation of self. That is, to freely choose who and what you want to be, and then to experience that vividly through your senses, so that you may truly know it in your soul.

Life gives us the opportunity to create whatever we wish, limited only by the natural laws of the universe. You can create pain and suffering; you can create joy and elation. Both help you to experience your whole self, in its entire multi-faceted, multi-dimensional nature. Good and Bad, Right and Wrong. What’s more important is which do you want to experience more of? Which do you seek to create in this lifetime to facilitate your soul’s understanding of itself? This free choice, this ability to create, is the answer to the age old question: What is the purpose of life?

And you know the answer is… “You choose it for yourself.”

Journey to Become One

Your soul is on a journey to become one with God. But there is a problem, just like when you shatter a gigantic fishbowl into a million pieces… no piece comes out exactly the same. Each soul has become a uniquely shaped piece of a gigantic puzzle, with its own exact place and location. To attempt to ‘glue’ back the pieces would be an incredibly arduous task, but there is a better way. Reshape each individual piece into a standard shape that forms a basic building block for the fishbowl (like Lego blocks). Use these building blocks to construct the fishbowl whenever a piece is finished being reshaped. The exact position does not matter any more, each piece has developed the qualities for it to join and be one with the whole.

You are like that little piece of glass, being reshaped and polished by the infinitely patient universe. It could take a few centuries or it might take a few millennia. The cultivation of spirit requires your mind to be centered and steady, giving you the inner harmony and patience to connect with God.

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One of the major complaints I’ve heard about being alive is the pain of loneliness. In this day and age, many people live isolated lives of quiet desperation. They go to work in the morning, come back in the evening, heat up a microwave dinner, switch on the TV, stone for two hours, drink some alcohol, maybe surf the Internet, then fall asleep. 

In the past, it was not easy for a person to lead an isolated lifestyle. Everything we needed to survive had to come through interaction with other people. For example, buying bread from the baker, meat from the butcher… in the past, there were no huge supermarkets where you could do all your grocery shopping in silence; quietly comparing prices by yourself. 

You had to talk to different people to get what you need. This might be a lame example but it’s rather obvious that the increase in convenience also increases our separation from others. Do any of you talk to the guy at the checkout counter? You could complete the entire transaction in silence if you wanted to. Just nod your head, pay your money and go. 

In the past, there ware no fancy computer games, no Xbox, PlayStation, or the Internet to feed your entertainment needs. If you wanted fun, you’d have to play a game with others. Whether it’s a table game like Chess or Scrabble, or a physically active one like the Kampong (village) game, chaptek, where players do kicking stunts with a flat rubber shuttlecock. When you were young in school, I’m sure you played many such games with your friends during recess period or after school. But as we age, many of us lose touch of this precious joy that comes from group games and sport. It’s just all about work, money, and survival. 

There are good reasons why you should shut off your TV and gather your friends for a game or two. The Church of Christ understands this principle well. They call it Fellowship. Cell group leaders will take the effort to organise group activities, outings, games, discussions, pot luck dinners and more. Friends can bring new friends – the more the merrier. In my opinion, they are doing a great job of helping people experience the joy of being together. This is a condition you should try to create in your life. Whether you want to join a fellowship organisation, a special interest group, a book club, a school alumni, or simply call up old friends, every one of us needs to work at reconnecting ourselves with others. Especially when you live in a world designed to convenience you into separation and isolation.

You see, you don’t need a lot of money to be happy. Many people think they can only be happy with the lifestyle of the rich and famous. They want to jet-set around the world, have non-stop sex with a harem of harlots, swim in the opulent blue pools of Miami and such. Now as fantastic as that sounds, there are many rich people who are experiencing loneliness in life. 

They think everyone around them is just there for their money and nobody really loves them for who they are. The old saying is, ‘it gets lonely at the top’. And these people at the top of the pyramid are experiencing their disconnection from the rest of the world. So you see, the problem is the same. What they lack and what we lack, is love. And money can’t buy love. It takes an investment of your time, energy, and emotions, to build up fruitful relationships. 

If you consider that every one of us is a soul animating a physical body, then on a spiritual level, we are all connected because all spirit emanates from the same source – God. (When I speak of God, I mean so in the universal sense as a higher power and not biased to a particular religious order.) As children of God, we are here to explore and express the beauty of life . Thus the magic is hidden in our interaction. Spending time to know others can help you learn more about yourself. 

That is the higher purpose of the Big Bang – why God split himself up into the infinite number of stars and souls which inhabit this universe – to know thyself; to know Himself. Because even for God, infinity is a lonely place to be if He’s by himself. So He opened himself up to the Universe within, which is why there is you and me, and we are all part of something greater, part of a whole, and we must not be afraid to explore ourselves; explore each other. And this is done not in isolation, but by getting out there and interacting with others. For such is the purpose we are created. To explore and experience everything, including the gamut of human emotions – the good and bad, right and wrong, the Seven Sins and The Ten Commandments – we go through it all. 

So some people ask why does God allow people to suffer? Why are there 3 billion people living on less that $2 USD a day? This is not God’s fault… this is our fault. Too many people only think of taking, keeping, getting more, and hoarding in order to create the opulent, luxurious lifestyle they think will give them unlimited pleasure. So in a country where we gorge ourselves on burger, porn, pizza, spa massage, horror movies, celebrity gossip, computer gadgets and more, there are people who scrape rotting meat off leftover fish bones from the factory to fry and eat as a daily meal. This is not a problem for God to fix because He is an observer. If the social condition bothers us, then we should find it in our hearts to reverse our Taking mindset and focus on how we can give to others. Now Some people say, “What if I give and give and nobody gives back?” Then this is my answer, ‘you can’t give away what you don’t have.’ 

Sometimes you own things not only in the physical sense, but in the noumenal sense as well, like wisdom or an idea. This you can share with another – it is also a form of giving. Sometimes you see a friend in need, you sit down with him or her over a cup of coffee and brainstorm together ways to overcome their problems. This is also a form of giving. Giving doesn’t mean you have to give your wallet away. It means you need to grow the Spirit of Giving, which is the same one that wants and desires to see friends and family healthy and happy. The Holy Spirit that will go all the way for a friend. All you need is the Will to help someone.

When you play games with others, you learn the importance of sharing and taking turns; offering others encouragement, complimenting their efforts; building camaraderie and deeper bonds. You learn about the joy of giving to others, the joy of competition, and the joy of fellowship that money can’t buy. Everything we enjoy – food, sex, money, fun, friendship, social approval, and more – comes from other people. Loneliness and boredom happens when we isolate ourselves; thinking that this is the norm when it is actually an abnormality of the human condition. So now is the time to experience joie de vivre (joy of life) by reaching out and connecting with others. Rid yourself of those old isolation policies and start trading with other people. You’ll find that the magic of living is found in connecting your heart to others around you. Touch the spirit in every person.  

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We have talked about improving happiness by developing a robust network of friends. I hope some of you have put the thought into action and are beginning to see results. Some members report a marked improvement in their mood just by spending a day out with friends on a field trip. Sounds good? Then you should do more of it.

Let’s talk a little bit about having a philosophy for life because I realize that many of us do not see a higher purpose for our lives or a reason for being. And this must be conceived before we can find meaning in living.

Spirituality
I will divide the world for you into the religious and the non-religious. Some youths today think religion is ‘stuffy’, ‘old-hat’, and for the ‘weak-minded’. In fact, you’ll see how a guest religious speaker can get intellectually trashed at a university conference made up of highly educated non-believers or agnostics. However, on the whole, the people with religious beliefs have a happier state of mind than non-believers. This is because they have metaphysical answers to questions science alone cannot answer. They see a bigger picture to life and being.

I don’t know what your religion is, and maybe you are agnostic. But I believe there is some hidden force at work in our Universe; some higher intelligence. There are Leaders of this Universal Intelligence: God, Yahweh, Allah, Buddha, Shiva, Zeus, Neptune, Poseidon; Odin, Thor, Freyja; Osiris, Isis, Horus, Hathor and others. I’m not going to debate on who has the truest religion because this has been done many times before. I am a Buddhist by religion and I believe in the philosophy of Buddhism – the Buddha, the Dharma, and the Sangha – the Triple Gems. But I won’t say this is the truest religion because there is no way we can scientifically validate this claim. All religions are based on faith. And thus it takes a leap of faith to make it real for you. Follow your heart, read the literature, and choose what you want to believe in.

A Reason for Living
I believe everyone is born onto this Earth with some role to play. Their life is set up so that they will experience challenges and difficulties which they have the opportunity to overcome or fail. If you can master the lessons in this lifetime, you will progress to new challenges and lessons in the next lifetime. Here I am making an assumption of a Death and Rebirth Cycle – our soul is reborn over many lifetimes. And there is a scorecard. Look at your hands. Your past life experiences are carved into the lines of your hands. That’s how palm readers are able to spot people who are old souls with great wisdom and experience. Merit is also accumulated and rewarded accordingly. If you do good in this lifetime, you are rewarded with better personal qualities or circumstances in your next lifetime. This is what Buddhists call Karma; Christians say ‘You reap what you sow’.

Some of us are here to teach, some are here to express through music, some are here to make technological or scientific breakthroughs; some are here to learn the basic lessons like kindness and compassion. (Actually I would consider that an advanced lesson, but I don’t know how the Universe organises its curriculum.) Whatever your situation is now, know that you have a role to play in this lifetime. It may be a life of suffering because one may have done evil in the past, or it may be a life to enjoy as a reward for past good deeds, or it could be a standard lesson in patience, persistence, self-confidence, or a million other qualities.

What I’m telling you takes a leap of faith to believe in. That’s why many educated people would simply dismiss it as hogwash. But the foundation of my happiness lies in knowing that there is a greater purpose and system to life than just the one I’m living. With this understanding, I see obstacles not as problems, but as challenges to overcome. Pain and suffering not as bad luck, but as part of a lesson to be learned. Let me give you an example: Imagine in a past life you were a wealthy land owner who scalded a woman’s face with boiling water because she wouldn’t marry you. Then in this lifetime, you are born as a woman with facial deformity. The Universe wants you to learn the pain caused to the scalded woman who rejected you, by putting you in a role where you directly experience every emotion – depression, fear, rejection – in the hope that you will understand the pain caused to others and perhaps become a more understanding, kind, and compassionate soul.

Action Plan
Psychological studies show that religion is a happiness booster. So for this week, if you are agnostic, I invite you to look around at the different religions and explore their literature, practices, and philosophy. You’ll probably find one you feel that speaks to your heart. If you already have a religion you like, I invite you to delve deeper into the spiritual knowledge – read the books, talk to the spiritual teachers, visit the temples, monasteries, synagogues, churches, or mosques. There is great spiritual power flowing through these places. Spending some time there will be good for your soul. You will see that it enhances your clarity and gives you renewed strength.

Test For Religious Orientation
There is a free online test you can try for knowing which religion suits your personal belief system.  Belief-O-Matic – Religious Direction Test

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Why You Are Stuck In A Particular Circumstance

Sometimes, life will throw things at you that you cannot understand. For example, a person wants to love a lady, but no matter what, she resists your advances. This means she is not your lady, or that there is something keeping the two of you apart. It could be Karma from the past or love from another man in the past. Another example is that of a beggar who has no home. It could be a ex-lover from the past making you poor.

The situation, or Karma, or people keep you apart. So these things are unseen and invisible. People can’t see them, so they don’t know they are operating quietly in the background. These cause us much frustration because they are things from the greater past which are influencing our future. Knowing how they operate will benefit you greatly. It will teach you how to overcome negative karma and to see situations with an observing eye that stays centered amidst the storms of life.

What are some of these factors and situations? Let’s find out.

Karmic Influences

There is something known as Karma. This is a spiritual force which records, rewards, and punishes the good and bad deeds of people. It is ever-present, invisible, and all-potent. If you think there is no punishment for bad deeds and no reward for good deeds, that is wrong. Good deeds are rewarded and bad deeds are punished – not by Heaven, but by the Universal Force. It is automatic and continuous throughout all existence.

Your life is a result of doing good or bad karma; it can come in many forms – not only good or bad. Karma can be liking karma which is the result of having treated someone well in a past life or earlier time in your life. It can be animosity karma, which brings two people into conflict. There is even Food Karma which can be good or bad – causing you to eat delicious cuisine or garbage food. It can even be love karma which makes or breaks your relationship.

Karma is something automatic and powerful. What you need to know about Karma is that it is not a simple thing, but a complex system of rules. Every act in the Universe has karmic points associated with it. Killing a person is 1000 bad karmic points if it is accidental. If it is done with ill intent, it will cost 10,000 bad karmic points. What karma can do to you is amazing…. 5 good karma will give you an hour sitting on the beach, reading your book, ogling guys and girls, and sipping your Piña Colada. 2 good food karma will give you a delicious meal that fills your tummy and delights your tastebuds.

Bad Karma

This kind of karma comes when we do something bad like be unfilial to our parents, disloyal to our spouses, kill an ant, or eat beef (Buddha’s rule: no eating beef because the cow is a sacred animal). Eating beef carries 2 negative karmic points for every 1 pound or 450 grams of beef. What that will do to you is give you pain in some physical form like a bodyache, a headache, swelling, or even gout. More than that, the karmic points can accumulate into a big problem like kidney failure.

Some foods which bring about good karma are all vegetables, rice and grain, nuts, beans, cheese, tofu, apples, pears, bananas and more. Most Yin energy foods like the above are water-based and bring about good karma. However, Yang foods like fried chicken (-1 karmic point), grilled beef (-2 karmic points), pork (-1 karmic point), give you bad karma. The only meat that is safe from negative karma is Fish. The rest of the meats will give you bad karma. Even the rest of the seafoods will hurt you because the animal really struggles and suffers before it dies.

“Why No Beef? Steak is the BEST THING!”

For cows, God Indra, was inhabiting all cows for many lifetimes. So when we killed cows, he watched the cows suffer greatly even though they gave milk and cheese, but still lost their lives to meat slaughter. Therefore, Buddha thought, “We must stop the demand for beef by willing our followers to stop eating beef.” Thus, the rule: No Beef. Anyway, it is the heaviest karmic blow of 2 points for 1 steak (450 g). 2 negative karmic points can give you a headache for 10 minutes.

The Karma that Lurks In People

People have good and bad karma as well. Just rubbing them can transfer their Karma to you. So if you want to bless a good friend, pat them on the back. Your karma will transfer to them. This is especially so if you are grateful and pat them in a state of gratitude or appreciation. You might even see them smile as the karma enters them.

Some people have very bad karma, such that when you shake hands with them, you can feel it stick to your palms. If you feel that bad karma is sticking to you, go bathe yourself or wash your hands. Pray to the Gods, Angels, and Buddhas that the water you use may be Holy. This Holy Water you wash with will be able to clear bad karma. You can even ask an Angel to bless your drink Holy and you will be drinking Holy Water. To contact an Angel, simply pray at a church. An angel can become your Life Guide. If you are of another religion, pray at your temple, synagogue, mosque, or cathedral.

Lives also have good and bad karma. A rich man has a life of great karma. To be rich requires more than a blessed life. It takes brains, tenacity, talent, and great help. A poor man, on the other hand, is not blessed. But if he works hard, uses his mind, educates well, and makes plenty of talented friends, he can also pull himself up. Even though he might not be as rich as the first man, he will still do well. However, if one has great negative karma, then no matter what you try, it can fail. Let’s say you have great bad karma and you want to make a killing on the stock market, but in the end, you killed your bank account. You tried hard – training in technical analysis, reading stock market indicators and studying trading systems. And after 6 months of training, 3 months of paper trading… you still lost it all. Sad? Karma attracts this situation to you. You had no choice but to lose.

How can you avoid situations like this? You can pray to your Guardian Spirits not to lead you into situations like this. But they will probably say it is your life lesson. Sometimes life teaches you hard lessons like these. There is no way out, but only to learn from the higher lesson that this experience brings. For example, in a stock market crash, don’t trade. But for a higher lesson, it could be: Don’t trust in methods that promise easy money. Or don’t be so greedy for money such that you look to get rich quick.

How To Get More Good Karma?

Good karma is good. But it is not free. You have to do more good deeds to get good karma. Help a friend in need. Give things away to charity. Abstain from killing an animal. Buy a meal for a beggar. Resist sexual misconduct yourself and encourage a friend to be loyal to his wife. Speak kind and good words to others always. Resist scolding, cursing, and getting angry with others. Every time you do a good deed like this, you get good karma. This good karma is a reward for your good actions. Enjoy your rewards.

Being good is the key to a good life. You know this. But if you want to be bad and still have a good life, it is possible. But you will have to pay back in the end. Your soul will be put through another harrowing experience in future because of your accumulated bad karma. Life is not kind to bad people. It is good to good people.

What you need to know is that loving everything and everyone in life is the way to a better life. There is no substitute for being good. Good life is something earned. It cannot be won by fighting over, you have to earn it.

There are many things which consist of Good Deeds, but what you must know is that Goodness is from Within. If you are good on the inside, all the goodness will flow out from you and into the world around you. How do you become good from within? You cultivate it into yourself. Methods like meditation, repentance, seeking refuge, prayer, volunteering, doing good deeds etc.

Clearing Karma

Karma is something fixed. You can’t adjust it. However, you can offset it. This is done by using your Good deeds to offset your Bad deeds. You can pray to the Gods to get this done. Or your Guardian Spirits can ask the Gods in charge for it.

Repenting and doing more good deeds is the other way to clear karma. There is no other way to clear karma. Only thing you need to know is that you must repent and correct yourself to a better way of life. That is what karma wants – to be your teacher. Your teacher cares for you and designs the future lessons in your life for you.

Examining Karma

It is possible to examine the karma of your past life with the skilled intervention of an Angel Reader. Many times the problems we face are because of some kind of karmic action. A skilled Angel Reader like Halabuth can see these Karmic interactions and tell you why you are going through what you are experiencing in the current moment and how it is linked to your immediate past or past lives. Halabuth is a True Psychic, which means he has the ability to know your innermost karma. This gives him the ability to read a person’s life like a book.

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When life does not unfold the way you expect… and there are many situations like this, where the harder you try or the faster you act, the worse things get. What can you do to shift the flow of things and change your life?

One of the most important principles I have learnt in my lifetime is that ‘Life Mirrors Your Beliefs’.

We are all the product of what is within us. If, for example, you develop the belief that others are out to cheat, then you will find a lot of people who fill that role perfectly, and victimising situations strangely drawn to you.

This is not to say that the world does not have people who intentionally deceive, or that you should not be wary, but if the fear of deception becomes your main focus, then that is all you will find. The intense focus blinds you to those who are honest, generous, and just.

Beliefs colour our perceptions, such that even the cutest, kindest animal can seem to be a venomous beast.

The reverse is also true.

What is important is that you clear your mind to be free of beliefs which cloud your perceptions, such that you can achieve clear sensing to get the most objective impressions of people and situations.

This alone, can already shift the course of your life.

Many of us are not aware of the thoughts which flash by in our minds. The culmination of these split second assumptions and judgments, subtly shift our moods and conjure emotional storms that cause us to act in destructive and detrimental ways.

That is why I always say: The better a person you are, the better your life shall unfold.

Sometimes, people challenge me on this and cite examples of those who are dishonourable, selfish, and greedy, who seem to have all the wealth, power, and fame.

I say yes, they are right. There are people who use an underhanded approach to quickly achieve wealth, power, fame, and pleasure. Yet, there are people who achieve equivalent results using honourable, generous, and fair principles.

The difference is in which way allows you to get a good night’s sleep.

Let us examine the question of quality of life for a moment….

Is a good life defined just by money, luxury, status, and the satisfaction of our desires?

Or could peace of mind, family harmony, friendly neighbours, and a sense of meaningful existence, contribute to your happiness?

Even though one road is faster… at the end of life, the the ultimate question is still:

“Achievement and luxury aside, are you happy with who you have become?”

And I do not mean ‘who’ as in status or reputation, like:

“So-and-so is a Powerful Leader.” — Who’s Who

“Revolutionary Brilliance.” — TIME

These are achievements.

What I mean by ‘who’, is the measure of your character, which requires the transformation of your heart.

The most difficult situations in our lives that we are stuck with, cannot be broken through with a simple change of strategy or the latest tactic.

These are tools of the mind. The best tools, wielded inappropriately, would become a weapon, and instead of building something worthwhile, would lead to destructive results.

What you need are not new tools or techniques, but a different way of using them.

And the difference here, is in your heart — not in your intelligence, but in your wisdom.

Wisdom comes from the heart. It is what you choose to do with all that you know; the alignment of your actions — what is your effect on the world?

When it is finally time to go, what have you left behind through your life on Earth? Will the world be any better for your friends, your family, your children?

Or have you unknowingly made it harder for them to carry on?

Life is a transformation of character.

You could just be doing an ordinary job, leading a simple, routine life. Yet, you are in the same boat as the most extravagant millionaire.

You are on the Life Boat… and on this journey, the destination is not as important as how you choose to get there.

The path you choose is a reflection of who you are. And in God’s eyes, that is all that matters.

This is a Spiritual Tarot reading by Halabuth Bong for the week of 15 Aug – 22 Aug 2016. It is relevant to the people living in Singapore and it is related to Business and Industry. Shall we begin? Here we go!

Card One: The Fool

The first card is your past and it shows you venturing into something new. Taking an unknown path of sorts with many promises of good fortune and good returns. This could be a new business, a new marketing strategy, a new job, a new path that you have recently embarked upon. Think, what new thing have I just begun?

The Fool is a card for striking out on a new path, letting go, and living in the moment. Trusting the flow and being true to yourself.  You have entrusted yourself to follow your heart. And that is why you have arrived in a confrontation in Card Two – the present moment.

Card Two: 7 of Wands

The second card shows you in the present moment battling forces and trying to hammer things down – using Aggression, Defiance, and Conviction to get your way. You might find yourself taking the offensive and making your point forcefully. Or defending your position against challengers and refusing to yield. Deep inside yourself, you feel you are right and your fixed position is an example of how you are standing up for what you believe in.

Card Three: The Emperor

In card three (your future), through your efforts battling with the forces in Card Two, you finally run into an encounter with the Law or Government. This is a person or institution which is in power and has authority. They might take disciplinary action or it could mean that you have to handle legal matters. There are rules to follow and The Emperor lays down the law. It could also mean that You become the Emperor and assume a leadership role, commanding others, being in a position of strength and contacting officials to set directions. You might find yourself structuring your business or work – categorising and organising things.

Conclusion

These cards tell the story of an entrepreneur who starts of with zest in a new venture and rushes out to battle the market forces in all ways he can, only to realise that he has run afoul of the law. So for all you Singaporeans doing something new this week, remember to follow the rules of war when fighting your battles and stay within the guidelines set by the governing authorities. Follow this sage advice: Fight like a gentleman.

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Archangel Uriel, the Psychologist Angel, is answering this.

Angel Therapy is about dealing with your life’s problems at a spiritual level. There are many layers to this… for example, if you want to change another person, you first have to change yourself. People are synergistic in nature. For every 10 people who come along to Angel Therapy, there are 5 who don’t know what spirituality means. So we must start there….

What Spirituality Means 

Spirituality is a connection with the Divine. It is through this connection that you can see the spiritual karma behind all your problems and situations. To develop a Divine connection is not easy, but if you want to do it you can. Life has a way of guiding you to your goals. If only you choose to be a bit more trusting in God, then you will find that He will give you the Gift of Spirit, which is that connection to the Divine.

Why Is Human Intervention Ineffective Against Some Problems?

Deeper-rooted problems have their basis in the spiritual level. There are things going on behind the scenes like Karma and Soul Contracts to keep you rooted in the problem. Only by dispelling it at the spiritual level, can you overcome the problem. It is basically a pyramid hierarchy with the spiritual level at the top (the level we deal with) and other levels below like beliefs and behaviour (where regular psychological intervention works). A change on a lower level does not necessitate a change at a higher level. But a change at the highest level of Spirit, will have a massive effect on every other level of your pyramid’s levels of change.

What Makes Magic Cross Angel Therapy Different?

Firstly, in Angel Therapy, the power to create change does not come from a psychological technique, but comes from a direct spiritual intervention on the soul level. Secondly, we also invite Buddha Healers who can heal you at the Spiritual Level. Thirdly, you in your life, have no way of knowing how it is going to turn out. But with Spiritual Transformation, you can see exactly the patterns and interactions which produce the situations you face everyday on a soul-to-soul level. This means we go beyond the regular one-to-one model of therapy and involve all souls in a many-to-many therapeutic engagement.

How Can I Benefit From Angel Therapy?

I will give you three examples:

1. A boy wants to have sex with his mother, but is afraid of his father. This is called Oedipus Complex. We can fix this using a combination of Karmic Release and Spiritual Separation.
2. A girl is overweight and cannot stop eating. This is called Gluttony. We can fix this using End Motion Therapy and the Precious Goals Process.
3. A man has trauma because his ex-wife abused him. This is called Victimhood. We can fix this using Re-imprinting and the New Behaviour Generator.

Phobias, traumas, heartbreak, sadness; grief, anger, unforgiveness and more can be healed through Angel Therapy. All it takes one therapeutic session to achieve a significant breakthrough which can transform your life.

Angel Therapy is available at Magic Cross at $150 per hour for a transformation. It should take under 5 hours. Angel Therapists or Buddha Healers will be present to guide the therapy. Breakthroughs are guaranteed and we will do everything we can to help you overcome the problem. Read More About Angel Therapy or Book your Angel Therapy session now by calling Halabuth at +65 8878 8892.

How does an Angel Reading differ from other fortune-telling methods?

An angel reading is similar to a psychic reading in that the reader can give you information directly without the use of tools like crystal balls, tea leaves, astrological charts, or by reading your birth dates and other numbers.

In an angel reading, the reader receives information directly from your spirit guides and angels. The angel reader can see deceased loved ones and facilitate communication between you and them. Similar to what a medium can do.

In an angel reading, angels and spirit guides are the ones doing the work. Thus, you are getting information from Heavenly sources. To start an angel reading, all the reader has to do is hold onto a metal object that you have on your body with his receptive hand, and hold your other hand with his transmitting hand to facilitate an energetic communication loop between you and the angel reader.

Then the angel reader will say a short prayer to affirm the oneness in all life and between the two of you as partners in an angel reading. With this blessing, the angel reading will commence. The angel reader will scan your body with spiritual sight for angels, spirit guides, and deceased loved ones. Then he will attempt to make a divine connection with these beings so their messages and blessings may be passed on to you.

Angel readings are different from Feng Shui, Ba Zi, or I-Ching readings in that they do not rely on tools or numbers, but are based on direct spiritual communication with Divine beings.

What should I look out for in a good Angel Reader?

Look for these 3 things:

1. Your angel reader demonstrates a genuine connection with the Divine.
2. Your angel reader speaks the truth.
3. Your angel reader understands your feelings and empathises with your situation.

An angel reading is an opportunity to be counselled by the Angels. To get first-hand advice from Divine beings about your life situation and its troubles. You will be amazed at what information can come through to you from the Heavenly World. And occasionally, God might speak too and give you astounding insight into your problems.

In Halabuth’s angel readings, Buddhas are in presence too. So if you seek advice about life, love, and success; or you need deep healing on a spiritual level, Buddha can help you through Halabuth’s spiritual guidance.

Some of the advanced abilities in Halabuth’s angel readings are his ability to see past lives and future gaze to see what is coming in your future. He can spot what job you will be in and whether you have a new soulmate coming. Marriage and love issues are also hot topics in an angel reading; so are career and making more money. And if you are wondering what your life purpose might be, Halabuth can point you in the right direction.

Sometimes angel readers use angel cards or tarot cards in an angel reading because these give added detail and texture to the information received. The pictures on the cards also help to confirm to the client that the solutions they are hearing are actually reflected in the cards. So there is a basis for their angel reading and it is not just information pulled from the air.

Angel readers are skilled Divine communicators. They are Messengers that act as a channel for Angels, Gods, and Spirit Guides to reach you. Angel readers can be partially awakened or fully awakened individuals like Halabuth. The level of Awakening of the angel reader will determine how deeply he can communicate with the Divine.

God communicates to us in many ways. And one of the most direct ways He and His angels can reach us is through a conversation  with an angel reader. Halabuth offers angel readings at $80 for a 30-minute session. So if you are interested in experiencing one yourself, please book by calling +65 8878 8892.

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This message is from Kuan Yin.

Kuan Yin is the Bodhisattva of Compassion.

She is like the radiant star of Heaven shining down upon you.

Anyone who prays to Kuan Yin will be blessed with good life, good health, and peace.

Now, Kuan Yin blesses everyone who comes to her with an earnest heart.

She wants to support people with a Good Heart.

That is why she does her work on the Earth plane.

Now, if you want Kuan Yin to bless you, you must pray to her at her temple.

That is more powerful than praying to her at home because she receives messages from people at her temple.

When you pray to Kuan Yin, just use 3 sticks of joss stick.

Many people grab a bunch of 10-20 sticks because it is free, thinking that their prayers will be magnified.

But Kuan Yin thinks this is a waste of resource.

It is not a crime to waste resource, but it shows a lack of consideration for others.

Try to be conservative when you visit Kuan Yin Temple.

Do not ogle at women. Be respectful of them because Kuan Yin is the Guardian of Women.

Life to me is not a challenge, but a journey.

I think of it as a long road to walk, with many experiences along the side.

Take time to smell the flowers.

You know what the purpose of life is?

It is to cultivate yourself to be better.

This is a divine secret.

Many people think it is about making more money and reaching for more power.

But what life really is, is a school for young souls.

Mature souls which have cultivated, go to Heaven and live for Eternity.

Young souls live on Earth and reincarnate continuously until they are cultivated enough to live a divine life.

Try not to think of Earth as a prison. It is not. It is a school, like I said earlier.

When you go to school, you must be more diligent than when going to any other place.

This is because school is for kids.

Heaven wants our kids to grow up strong, healthy, and happy.

We want them to be smart, loving, and caring.

A wise man once said, “Give a man a fish and feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish, and feed him for a lifetime.”

Life is teaching you to fish in Heaven. Do you understand?

I want you to know something. I don’t feel I am a very wise woman. I feel I am kind.

Therefore, don’t expect what I write to be deeply profound or greatly insightful.

What I want is for you to cultivate a good character, so your soul can enjoy a Heavenly Life in Eternity.

I am Kuan Yin. I like good people. If you are a good person. I will bless you with everything.

Namo.

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Goddess of Mercy, Kuan Yin, can be consulted at Kuan Yin Temple at Waterloo Street in Singapore. Halabuth can be your Temple Guide and Psychic Channel for Kuan Yin’s messages. Contact Halabuth about Temple Guidance today. Call or message Magic Cross: +65 8878 8892

 

Michael is writing this. Archangel Michael.

 

It is not in God’s mind to create a world that is beautiful.

It is in His mind to create a world that is meaningful.

And that is a world with Lessons.

Now… God says this:

“Am I going to make a world that is beautiful or a world that is meaningful? I am going to create a world that shines meaning.”

What does He mean by that it shines meaning? He means that it useful to the growth of souls – their character and their personality.

God wants to see us grow beyond our in-built programming. Everyone has programming, you know?

Some are greedy, some are lustful, some are angry, worried, perturbed….

Others are kind, honourable, patient, bold, creative, flexible etc.

If you could know the mind of God – be one with Him – then you would see that He wants us to be more than what we came here with.

“Use life as a school,” God says. “Go through it with a mindset of a Warrior.”

“Fight for everything,” God says, “And realise that nothing is worth fighting for. Then you become a Sage.”

This is the Eternal Promise: God will always take care of those who ask for His help.

If you want God’s help. Just kneel down and put your hands together in prayer.

And say, “Father God, please help me. This is my problem… [state problem].”

And then, be aware of whatever Guidance comes to you in your heart and mind, or through the words and actions of those around you.

Try not to be too worried if God will judge you. He is magnanimous and giving.

If you want my Help – Archangel Michael – then pray this: “Archangel Michael, would you help me please…. [State problem.]”

I will always come to you in times of need. You are a Child of God. I will protect you.

I like to tell people that God listens all the time. But He doesn’t. He tunes in and out like a radio channel to each of us.

You need to shout with your mind for God to hear you. There is so much noise in the Universe.

Sometimes I wish that we could help everybody… but it is difficult to achieve.

There are so many souls in the Universe. Earth is only one place where sentient life exists.

If you could see what other planets are like, you would understand the beauty God created.

It is A MUST that you bring yourself to know God. He is the key to a life in Heaven.

Heaven is a wonderous place. There are so many things to play with in Heaven.

A life in Heaven is a life of joy, love, happiness, and peace.

If you are granted a place in Heaven, you will live for Eternity.

Try connecting with God through prayer. This is the way we reach out to God.

His Love for you is Universal, Everlasting, and Mind-blowingly awesome.

The Universe is a Vibrating, Living Organism. 

People don’t know this. They think whatever they think, say, and do has no effect on God.

But he senses the discord, anger, envy, prejudice, pain, and suffering that people go through.

And He doesn’t like it. To Him, it represents a lack of enlightenment.

To which He says, “Try again young one.”

And you find the situation you face repeats itself. For example, always hooking up with the wrong guy.

I like to share another principle here. That is ‘Love Is All You Need’.

If you have got Love in your soul, then you will have smooth passage through all the problems thrown at you by Life.

I have been able to become an Archangel by trusting God and following His Words.

You can too. Connect with God first, then follow His Words.

How do you connect with God? Through prayer.

That is all I have for you now. Thank you.

Amen.

 

Salute,

Archangel Michael 

 

Note: If you would like to consult Archangel Michael, you need to notify Halabuth in advance because Archangel Michael comes upon invitation only. Archangel Michael is available for consultation in Halabuth’s Angel Reading sessions.

 

Since the end of the Industrial Age, men have lacked proper male role models. Pampered by our cushy white-collar jobs, our hands have become soft and our will has turned to mush. We have become the proverbial ‘yes man’ of the corporate world – lacking a spine, slithering around with a knife behind our backs, looking for someone to stab so we can climb the snakes and ladders of financial success. Perhaps we think: “Maybe the ladies will like me now that I have my cool new car and luxurious bachelor’s pad.”

Where are the real men of yesterday? The ones who worked hard all day till their muscles burned; the ones with blisters on their hands and calluses on their feet; the man that women swoon for at first sight? The answer is: “They’re all dead, Jim. All that’s left is us backstabbing, spineless, slithering yes-men.”

The real men may be dead, but their lessons from the past live on. Let us learn from our forefathers, what it means to be a man’s man.

#1        A Man Must Be Bold

In Chinese philosophy, a man’s body composes mainly of Yang chi – the essence of male energy, representing vigour and vitality. Yang is forceful, the aggressor, and symbolised by fire and heat. Women on the other hand, are composed of Yin chi – the cooling, receptive energy that surrounds everything. Yin is subtle, the receiver, and represented by flowing water.

Being a man, it is your duty to represent the essence of Yang chi. There is no time for beating around the bush; being too shy to ask for what you want, and being unsure of yourself. You have to be bold… it is your duty to be bold. You are the Yang – the aggressor. If you want to know a woman, you have to make the approach. You cannot wait for her to make the approach; she is Yin. She is the shy, receptive one, who is waiting for you to approach her. Pardon my seemingly chauvinistic suggestion, but let her be the Yin. Do not try to reverse roles and be the shy man who cannot even say ‘Hi’. I have never heard someone say, “Hah, he’s such a wuss for thinking she would even talk to him…”. What you would usually hear is, “Wow man, you’ve got guts! I wish I could do that.”

Women are attracted to men who are not afraid to love them… someone they can lean on, a shoulder to cry on; boldness is a representation of that inner strength. You can define boldness as ‘the courage to act’, turning your fear into strength, accepting rejection and pain as a natural consequence for daring to achieve your dreams.

Boldness also applies to business and life in general. The British Special Air Service (SAS) has a famous motto: “Who Dares Wins”. If you have got the brains, the guts,and the tenacity, then chances are success is yours. Listen to what German Philosopher, Johann Wolfgang von Goethe said, “Whatever you can do or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it.”

#2        A Man Must Live with Honour

Honour is a virtue of the Gentleman. Having honour means that you commit yourself to following a specific set of moral guidelines. People trust an honourable person’s word as a guarantee of future moral performance. Nowadays, we sometimes use the word ‘Integrity’ to represent honour.

Learning to live with honour will make you more of a man than ten years of corporate snakes and ladders can. Your promise must be a solemn commitment that you will keep to, no matter what. Your word must be as good as gold, if not better.

Building an honourable reputation is no easy task. It means total commitment to upholding your integrity and living your life by defined moral principles. If you are successful, your good name will spread. People will recognise you as a trustworthy individual, whom they can count on to take care of the largest responsibilities and entrust with the most confidential secrets. Taking on more responsibilities and secrets, can raise your life to new levels of prosperity and plenty. But let us be warned… if we ever breach that trust by committing just one selfish or perverse act, what could take a lifetime to establish, we can destroy overnight.

In the present Communication Age, good news travels fast and bad news travels even faster. The only way to stop the bad news is to never allow it to be created. So mind your actions because people listen to what you say, but they watch what you do. Place your hand over your heart and say, “Let my principles be my guiding light, distilled from my highest wisdom about what is right. Let my morals stand tall and true, let them choose the things I do.” Now touch your head and say: “So Be It!”

Make a difference today, put your foot down and be bold about upholding your honour. Adhere to your principles. Never do anything that would compromise your integrity and the trust people have in you. In return for your efforts, you will create more flow in your life; opportunities will come faster and more abundantly. You will have the chance to live your life to its fullest potential and splendour. So be a man of honour – your life depends on it.

#3        A Man Must Be Magnanimous

Magnanimous means to have a generous, forgiving, and noble nature. Simply put, magnanimous people have a big heart. They are gracious and kind, philanthropic and benevolent. A magnanimous gentleman gives generously and expects nothing in return. He takes joy simply in seeing those around him happy. He is an intriguing conversationalist and tells jokes to make others laugh.

A man’s magnanimity does not allow him to easily take offence at the words and actions of others. Anything potentially offensive is simply seen for what it truly is… wind passing through the trees. Like bamboo, he will never break, but only bend with the direction of the wind.

When you have mastered magnanimity, you will intuitively understand that there is a Law of Increasing Returns in the universe which states, “Whatever you give out will come back to you ten times stronger.” For example, if you look down on someone, ten more people will look down on you. If you cheat $500 from an old woman, sometime down the road, you will lose $5000. Likewise, if you contribute $200 out of the goodness of your heart, $2000 will be available for you to earn back. Perhaps through your business or in a sudden lottery windfall.

If you choose to let your greed get the better of you, manipulate others to your benefit, and refuse to help the needy, you can only expect poverty, hate, and disappointment to head your way. You reap what you sow; you get whatever you give out. This is a universal law.

A magnanimous man knows that helping others does not exhaust his resources, but rather because of the Law of Increasing Returns, it increases his resources tenfold, allowing him to do more good for the world. He knows that in helping others, he is also helping himself.

Develop the habit of solving other peoples’ problems and you become a more generative person. You produce and contribute more than the average guy, and thus earn more because you deliver more value to others.

Take little steps starting today, to make these characteristics a part of your character. Help someone in need, keep a promise, dare to speak up. Challenge yourself to become a man’s man: Be Bold, Be Honourable, Be Magnanimous.

The beauty of life is in the experience.

It is not the case that we can get whatever we wish for….

But more likely, it is a case of working for what we want.

Life is beautiful because there is a chance of success or failure.

It depends on how you conduct yourself and marshall your resources.

For those who BELIEVE in a higher power, they are guided through the words and thoughts of the Angels, the Gods, and the Creator.

For those who don’t believe, they are left to fend on their own, relying on their own wits to succeed.

Both are acceptable because God is always with us. Even though He might not speak to you, His thoughts come to you as your thoughts.

Thus, whether you like it or not, you cannot escape God’s presence.

If you want to make your life beautiful, the best thing you can do for yourself is to connect with God.

God is higher consciousness and through him, you are connected to everyone and everything.

A simple thought such as, “I hate this guy”, reverberates in God’s consciousness. Making Him link all hateful thoughts of you and this guy together.

Thus, your Hate Attracts Hate. Every time you meet this guy, the unconscious energy you put forth before, activates, and you have anger and sadness.

The higher spiritual truth here is that God wants you to learn to overcome your prejudice. Therefore, He creates situations for you to practice understanding and forgiveness.

That’s why situations repeat themselves – because the lesson has not been learnt.

Critical thinking is necessary when you encounter all of this.

Ask yourself: Why haven’t I forgiven this person? What is the cause for my anger?

Then look at the person as if you were them. Step into their shoes and become one with their point of view.

Find the reason why they hate you too. When you can see eye-to-eye, you have the necessary ingredient for developing Compassion.

Compassion, is what the Buddha taught as the key to Forgiveness.

If you will forgive, you will find that you are forgiven. 

That is the secret to harmonious relationships.

A beautiful life is more than money, love, and success. It is a chance for you to experience the ups and downs of triumph and failure.

“These experiences,” God says, “Are worth more than a lifetime of gold and riches. Because these experiences are invaluable to the growth of your soul.”

“I will not take these experiences away from you…” He says. “I want you to go through them. Live them. Know their lessons by heart.”

As you go through your life lessons, you are being moulded for your eventual place in Heaven.

God wants all His children to be perfect. Thus, you are encouraged to work through your life lessons with the diligence of a mighty warrior.

You can fast forward your way through these life lessons by seeking them out.

If you ask yourself: What have I got to learn here? What am I not learning here?

And listen to your heart… you will hear the wisdom of your highest self speak to you.

It can tell you what is the lesson you seek. And the block which prevents you from learning it.

Life has its treasured moments. These are moments worth living for. The reason we go through so much pain is for these moments.

But if you want to truly enjoy your life, then treasure every moment – up or down. For it is all sacred – memories you take with you when you die.

I would like to bless you with a wish now. May you know your highest self. And may you be always with God.

Amen.

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Many people wonder whether God and The Angels truly exist….

It seems elusive that Heaven would be hiding right before our very eyes. In everyday life and all the things we do… God is there. His Angels are watching.

I would like to relate a story. It is about how I became an Angel Guide.

One morning, while in deep meditation, I heard a voice whisper to me, “I AM GOD.”

This voice continued to talk to me. It was Fatherly, Loving, and Infinitely Patient.

He told me that he wanted me to help him. “Tell me,” he said. “If you could be anything, what would you want to be?”

I said, “Lord, I want to be a teacher. I want to impart knowledge and nurture minds.”

God said, “It’s okay to be a teacher. But wouldn’t you rather be spiritual?”

“What do you mean?” I asked bewilderedly.

“I have a task for you,” he said. “Help me enlighten souls. Teach them about their spiritual nature.”

“Woah…” I uttered. “It’s not possible.”

“Why?” came the taut reply.

“I know nothing about spirit…”

“I will teach you. Your first lesson begins today.”

And so it began… instructions. Meditation. Listening with the divine ear. Seeing with the divine eye.

Over years, I gradually developed a sense of what it is like to speak with Spirit.

I could hear Angels and receive their guidance.

It surprised me that these divine beings seemed just like regular people, except infinitely wiser and absolutely loving.

What I wished was that I could bring more people to experience God in the way I had.

The first problem I would face, God said, was that “most people won’t believe that I exist”.

The second problem, would be that people would call you a witch or some kind of demon for speaking directly with God.

The truth is, every one of us has the ability to speak with God. You just never tried….

Fast forward to 2016… I decide to come forward with my abilities and put myself out there to help people.

God said, “Try being a medium. A channel for Me and My Angels. It is hard work. The pay is adequate.”

I said, “I accept.”

How do we know that God exists? You ask for Him to reveal himself to you.

He will come to you in many ways. Be observant. That’s why we teach you to meditate.

If you want to see God with your very own eyes, you can. You have to trust in Him and allow him to show you his Kingdom.

God is omnipresent (present everywhere). His voice can be heard if you tune into it. It is no question of proof.

God only communicates with the Faithful. IF you don’t ask, you don’t receive.

To speak with God, listen to your heart for His guidance.

You will find that there are many ways in which He can speak to you.

God is always communicating. He wants to reach out to you. Yet, He will not do so without your permission.

He gave you Free Will. To listen or not to listen…. The choice is yours.

God loves all of us. From the very noble to the downright cowardly. He loves us All.

All are His children. And He wishes that they can learn from each other and exist harmoniously together.

People die, yes… but then they are brought to Heaven, where they live a better life.

To know God is to know your very Highest Self. And in that realisation, is the key to your AWAKENING.

Experience God’s omniscient wisdom LIVE in an Angel Reading.