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This program is for Men who are struggling with Lust and Sex Addiction. The story is set in Singapore in the local Geylang Red Light District scene.
The program helps men who have loneliness and self-loathing. They have lust addiction and go on repeated sexcapades.
Such a man finds it difficult to escape his sex addiction because the lustful feelings repeat every week!
How can he escape this sex addiction and lead a better, happier life?
Listen to the life story of Lance Ong, a young man with sex addiction. Hear how he overcomes the lust that draws him to visit prostitutes all the time!
Learn from Lance’s life experience…. 17 years of sex addiction he has overcome. And today, he brings you all his precious experience into one lesson that can transform your life!
Just listen to this program one time, take action on the ideas inside, and you will be cured forever! A powerful audio talk that takes you through the lust of the sex industry, through the innocent eyes of a little boy.
Why Listen To Lust Control?
- Overcome lust and sex addiction. Never look back to your old life of dark addiction.
- Feel lighter and free-er. No more yearning for hot girls and experiencing uncontrollable desires.
- Understand the principles of having a successful life. Breaking free of sex addiction to achieve it.
- Finally get a beautiful girlfriend who loves you for who you are and not just your money.
- Feel good about yourself. No more a sex addict. Now a free and good man. A better life awaits you!
- New! How to overcome compulsive masturbation. Useful if you are addicted to pornography.
What’s Inside Lust Control?
- A true life story about a young man’s excitement and struggle to break free of sex addiction.
- Real life lessons that help you kick the lustful nature and find your true and good self again.
- Step-by-step instructions on exactly what to do to escape the sex addiction trap.
- Wisdom about what it means to lead a beautiful life and the Path you need to take to achieve it.
- Laugh at the follies of a young pervert, learn from his experiences, and apply the principles to transform your own life!
Who designed Lust Control?
Lance Ong is a Master Trainer of Neuro-Linguistic Programming, Certified from NLP University in California, Santa Cruz, USA. Lance is a Master at helping people transform their lives. Since the tender age of 17, he became the World’s Youngest Trainer of Neuro-Linguistic Programming. Lance has transformed many lives through his personal consultation and coaching sessions. He is also trained in Hypnotherapy and Time Line Therapy — psychological tools which help people shift their mindsets and achieve personal breakthroughs in their lives. Today, Lance is middle-aged… an old humper, you can say. But now willing to give his experience back to society; willing to help you overcome your lust and sex addiction — open the doorway to a beautiful life!
How Much To Have Lust Control?
Controlling your lust will cost you nothing (absolutely free!) for this special psychotherapeutic course. It comes with a List of Lust Cure Instructions that gives you specific action steps to take to break free of lust and sex addiction. All you need is to listen one time, write down your insights and new decisions, then try out the action steps. Within days, you will find your lust and sexual habits completely disappear! Try it today, to experience a total transformation of your sex life!
Why Should I Do This Course?
Breaking free of sex addiction is one of the best things you could ever do for yourself in this lifetime. Once you are a free man, you will see all the better things in life come to you. Better experiences for joy and happiness, you get to meet better women, you even learn how to cook! Really, this is your chance to break free today! You will find ultimate freedom in becoming the ideal man you’ve always wanted to be!
Break Free of Sex Addiction and Lead a Beautiful Life!
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Lust Control Written Instructions
Lust is your body’s sexual energy being abused. Ejaculating sperm and semen is known to weaken your body and tire your mind. It ages your body cells as well. To be young & strong, you need to conserve semen ejaculation and contain sexual energy in your body, using it to rejuvenate your body cells instead of shooting it all out.
Within a single ejaculation, is the life force of a new born child that powers them for an entire lifetime. That life energy is actually your gift to your child. And it costs you physically, mentally, and spiritually to give it. Don’t waste your sperm. It contains millions of infant spermatozas. Your spiritual children. Don’t go throwing your unborn children into a condom in a brothel. They will grow up as lost souls. Keep them with you in your body. They will make you strong and happy; creative and wise.
The problem with Lust is that there are pimp and prostitute ghost spirits possessing your body causing you to have sex addiction. You need spiritual protection and spiritual clearing and mental reprogramming to be free of sex addiction. Ghost spirits can addict you to sex. And they possess you when you enter the brothel, the sex spa; they are in the escort or call girl; the pimp and your sex talk buddies.
If you want to know about the great conspiracy of ghosts and their pact with the Devil… and why you should avoid sex addiction for your life, read here: Devil’s Sex Addiction
Another super reason why you should avoid sex addiction is the danger of incurable sexually transmitted diseases like AIDS Acquired Immunodeficiency Syndrome, which is a virus that attacks your body’s immune system, so what happens is your body can’t even defend itself from simple diseases like the flu. AIDS can be transferred by contact with sexual fluids, for example getting a blowjob without a condom or licking pussy – AIDS can be transferred from contact between your saliva and the vaginal fluids.
One mental phenomenon you’ll find if you fuck prostitutes or gigolos is that you suddenly have difficulty reading. Your eyes keep jumping and skipping while you are trying to focus on the text like a demon spirit is trying to read through your eyes. And as you read, your eye focus gets jarred, distorted, and fatigued – even spoilt by the demonic spirit. The reason why fucking with ghosts and reading are so against each other is because lust is the realm of the devil, while The Word is the realm of God. The devil does not want you to read The Word (Bible), so if you fuck the devil’s prostitutes or gigolos, their demon spirits will go into your mind and jar your reading ability so you are blocked from receiving God’s Holy Spirit through The Word.
Another warning is that your guardian spirits that are horny and who are seeking to fuck girls through you… will be the first to be killed by the ghost pimps. Because… the ghost pimps want to possess your human mind and body to do the fucking themselves with their own prostitutes. So your guardian spirits who are horny, are the first target to be eliminated the moment they step into the brothel because the ghost pimps’ goal is full possession of your human body to create repeat business for themselves – executed by the ghost pimps themselves!
The solutions we recommend in Lust Control are Spiritual, Mental, and Physical — Mind, Body, Spirit Cures. Do them all and you are practically guaranteed to be free of lust and sex addiction. Lance Ong has suffered 17 long years of sex addiction to distill his experience into one super program for you. Listen to the Lust Control Audio Talk above. Write down your insights and new decisions. Based on your insights and new decisions, plan the best actions to take to transform your life. Break free of sex addiction and lead a beautiful life.
Lust Control Solutions
- Pray To Buddha at Kong Meng San Monastery in Singapore or your local Buddhist Temple. Pray to overcome your lust. Buddha helps those with a sincere wish to overcome compulsive sexual desire. Give Buddha a Kind Donation For His Help. Pray there once a week until you are cured.
- Pray For Archangel Michael at Your Local Church. He has the Power to Help You Cure Lust Addiction. Give him $50 SGD at his local church. Pray to Archangel Michael once a week at the Church, until you are Cured.
- Delete your porn collection on computers and hard disks.
- Delete your website bookmarks to porn sites, sex talk websites, and any prostitution-booking websites. You are going completely clean now. Years of gathering smut… you will now destroy… to be free.
- Block and Delete the phone numbers of pimps, prostitutes, sex masseuses, escort call girls. Erasing and blocking further contact is a big step breaking free of sex addiction. These are the people who will call you up to milk you of your money.
- Block and Delete Prostitute and Pimp Friends on Facebook and other Social Networks.
- Tell your Humping Buddies that you are turning over a new leaf; you are leaving the sex industry and want to have a new life.
- Eating has a dissolving effect on sexual desire. Anytime you want dispell sexual desire, just have a good meal. Learn to cook and prepare good meals. Your skill will help you greatly in future. For example, if you want to impress your girlfriend or you need to cook for your family.
- If you feel unwanted sexual desire, go for a walk outdoors or in nature. The fresh air and walking circulation in your hips, will disperse the pent up sexual energy. Remember to breathe deeply and relax.
- Attend Yoga Class. Yoga is the Art of Body Meditation Exercise. Through holding the Yoga Poses and the Breathing Concentration, you will learn how to dispell, channel, and control energies moving through your body. Sexual desire will no longer stay stuck in your body chakras. You will gain a heightened awareness of your body and know how to keep it in balance.
- Learn Meditation from a Buddhist Temple. Sign up for a course today. The mastery over your mind and emotions, will give you control over sexual mental representations — girl cooing sounds, naked images, lust & excitement feelings that are replaying over and over in your mind and body. Your Meditation Teacher will teach you how to dissipate these them. Just be honest and tell your Teacher about the lust challenge you are facing.
- Advanced: Pickup drawing women and painting digital artwork. Develop your artistic skill. Learn to draw women. In drawing women, you will know what makes them attractive to you. You will know what is it exactly that you are attracted to. Then try drawing that body part to perfection. You will see that a breast is a round line or curvature that attracts you. A naked butt is also a line and a curvature. Draw of many of these and you will have artistic appreciation of the female body that transcends sexual desire. If you find yourself drawing bigger & bigger breasts, it means you really want to be happy.
If you find yourself redrawing her buttocks, you really love sex.
If you find yourself drawing legs, you want to be handsome.
If you like drawing her face, you are seeking a life partner.
Got it? There is psychology in this exercise.
- Plan your goals and dreams in life. Write out your Vision for your life.
What would your life be like if it unfolds exactly the way you want it to be? Type it out. - Make an Action Plan crafted to achieve your goals and dreams. Write out your action tasks for your goals and place them on a To-Do List. You can use your Smartphone for this. Get a To-Do List app like Apple Reminders.
- Don’t eat in Red Light Districts and never drink in Brothels. Their foods and drinks contain sexual spirits that will bind your heart and mind with lust addiction.
- If lonely and thinking of filling the emptiness with pleasure, just contact GOOD Friends. Friends which you know have a Good Influence on you. Talk with them, hang out with them, talk about life and solve each other’s problems.
- If you don’t have a girlfriend yet, succeeding at Lust Control for 3 years, will give you the luck to meet a beautiful girlfriend. No more prostitution or masturbation will give you the Auric Glow of a Good Man.
- If you are married you have to know the benefits of why it is good to be good to your wife. So read, Loyalty To Wife – Success For Men.
Being trapped in Lust, can drown your success for many years. Even for an entire lifetime. Don’t lose everything to lust and sex addiction. It is a real ‘booby-trap’. Not enough energy, creativity, or money; dark eye bags, no real girlfriend, low self-esteem; masturbating to porn, doing nothing, feeling lonely; wasting time, achieving nothing, and losing life force; parents growing old, not succeeding in time for them; worrying about life, giving up, and then going for sex.
These are the real sufferings of a sex addiction life. Today, you have the chance to begin a journey that changes all that. Listen to everything, read with insight, and make your plan to change. You can do it. Be determined and really take action on these Lust Control solutions. I believe in you. I know you can make it. Take these steps and transform your life in to a beautiful one.
Yours sincerely,
Lance Ong
NLP Therapist
Generating Alternatives To Sex
At this point, you need to know what alternatives you have if you are not going to be having sex. To generate alternative activities and behaviours, we use the following NLP chunking technique.
Drawing like the example in the diagram. You will start with the first chunk at the bottom, which is sex. Then you ask yourself, “What is the higher purpose of sex?” In our example, we have ‘fun’. Then we continue chunking upwards to get a hierarchy. “What is the higher purpose of fun?” We get ‘happy’. The higher purpose of ‘happy’? ‘Good life’. The higher purpose of ‘good life’? ‘Meaningful’.
So now you can see what you are really seeking when you engage in sexual behaviour. But what you must ask yourself is… are there any other ways you can obtain the same states of mind by alternative activities and behaviours? The answer is “yes”!
To generate alternative activities and behaviours, you go to each keyword of your listed hierarchy and chunk downwards by asking yourself the question, “What else has ever given me fun besides sex?” And you get sports, games, and dating activities.
Then you go higher and ask, “What else has ever made me happy besides fun?” Good work done, a good meal, buying new tools and leisure reading.
Then go higher. “What else has ever given me a feeling of a good life besides being happy?” We have travel, a clean home, a breakfast and newspaper morning, and making money.
Then go highest, “What else has ever given me a meaningful life besides a good life?” Finishing reading a book. Being filial to parents. Mastering cooking. Helping a friend. And teaching my kids.
So if you brainstorm like this and keep the diagram in mind, you will have a full list of alternative activities and behaviours you will find can satisfy the deeper outcomes and states of mind you have for seeking sex.
And if you engage in these alternative activities and behaviours, it’s a healthier and better use of your time than seeking sexual pleasure. So generate your own chart and keep it in mind for when you need to counter the urge to seek sex out of boredom and a need for stimulation.
Overcome Masturbation
Have you over-cummed (overcome)? I bet you did.
You musn’t overcum because that would weaken you and age you.
Your life force is in your semen. It is all your best energies to be given to a newborn child. Shooting it out is pure waste and will leave you in a discharged state where all your creative powers and mental edge have been dissipated through your ejaculation.
Sexual Energy must be used to rejuvenate your body. Internally circulate your sexual energies throughout your body’s chakric energy system. Do not shoot out your life force!
Now, we will examine how to overcome masturbation compulsion with the use of a neuro linguistic program or NLP.
The first table is the strategy for masturbation compulsion. The second table below, is the advanced strategy for curing masturbation compulsion.
Problem: The Psychological Structure Of Masturbation Compulsion.
Visual
See a sexual image in the mind.
Feeling
Feeling the brain’s parietal lobe and upper back have horniness feelings.
Feeling
Seeking sexual satisfaction through masturbation.
Self-Talk
Saying to yourself proclamations of sexual success, “Yea Baby! Wooo! I’m gonna cum on you! Come fuck daddy. Show me your pussy…”
Solution: A New Strategy For Overcoming Masturbation Compulsion.
Visual Dissociation
See a sexual image in the mind. Usually this image is associated — meaning you are experiencing it as if you are there yourself — doing the fucking. What you need to do is to float out of your body like a spirit going to heaven, and observe your body flesh down in front of you doing the sex.
Feeling — Reclaiming Psychic Sexual Energy
1. Use Breathing to pull the sexual imagery’s sexual energy out of the image and into your body chakra’s physical energies. Just see the image of yourself having sex and pull the energy out with your breath. Watch the image lose its colour and vitality as you suck its power away with your breath. 2. Use the holy hand clasp for Praying to God. It has spiritual power. Do energy pulling breathing and holy hand clasping together.
Feeling — Body Internal Energy Recycling
While holding the hand clasp, squeeze your perenium and anal sphincter while breathing into and out of your belly. This will activate the microcosmic orbit — internal circulation between the sexual energy chakra (muladhara) at the perineum space in between your balls and anus, and the sacral energy reservoir (swadhistana) two inches below your belly button and two inches inside. Touch your tongue to the roof of your mouth to complete the circuit allowing circulation of internal energy. Breathe through your nose.
Self-Talk
Say to yourself some I AM Affirmations: “I AM A Good Man. I Am A Transformed Man! I Am A Successful Man. I Am A Happy Man!”
If the sexual imagery does not release and transmute into pure energy… ask yourself:
What is the higher positive intention of this sexual imagery refusing to let go it’s form and return to energy?
Usually there is a spirit entity holding the sexual imagery in place. It wants you to be sexual. There could be a few reasons for this:
- You might be the clientele of the prostitution industry. The ghost pimp does not want to let you leave the industry for fear of losing money.
- There could be mother spirits trying to change you to another girlfriend or wife. So they give you sex addiction. First by masturbation, then by mind-controlling you to seek sex. Once you are caught by your girlfriend or wife and the relationship breaks, the mother spirits will introduce their competing daughter to you by a chance meeting. The one to lose out is your wife or girlfriend.
- You have spirit brothers and spirit uncles who use your body for sexual pleasure. For example… spirits masturbating through you and experiencing sexcapades by possessing you and going to fuck prostitutes.
These are the major spiritual reasons the sex addiction would refuse to let go. That is why we say that sex addiction is actually a spiritual possession. You need to exorcise the spiritual possession in order to gain freedom from sexual suffering.
You can do this by a combination of Holy Prayer at your religious place of worship, burning of holy incense on your home altar, meditation, invoking guardian spirits and deities to help you; avoiding contact with sexual material and red light districts, eating spiritually blessed foods, and adopting a path of self-development to become a good and better man.
Try this strategy whenever you have a sexual thought come to mind. It’s a powerful and transformative process for clearing sexual thoughts and returning you to your centeredness.
Becoming The Ultimate Man!
I’ve been to the Red Light District so many times… I could almost not remember how many prostitutes I fucked….
My whole life has been one long sexual escapade — sneaking out… seeing prostitutes, squeezing boobies, licking pussy…. It’s like… I was trapped by Lust. Trapped in one repeated daily episode of feeling horny, seeking pleasure, getting high, and shooting it all out.
What frustrated me was never having enough concentration, vitality, and energy to succeed. Pretty girls don’t want a poor boyfriend who has sexual issues…. They want a rich man, a handsome man, a Prince. And I… was neither.
If I didn’t buck up and get rid of sex addiction, I wouldn’t be able to succeed as I did today. A man has got to get real with his life… this is a survival world. We don’t have time to be enrapturing ourselves with endless orgasms… we need our power to succeed! This is the breakthrough key of success — the channelling of sexual energy into work effort. It is the combination of all your continuous days of hard work, that will result in wealth. Masturbating and shooting it all out; watching porn and seeing prostitutes all day, will leave you empty physically financially… with no fuel leftover for success.
If you want to become a prince; to marry a pretty girl or princess… you need to work hard at it. Your true girlfriend won’t appear if her spiritual family sees that you are sex addicted. Guardian spirits exist for every person. They can see you from a million miles away (by spiritual eye). They can see your conduct… they know where you’ve been, they know what you do, they know how you treat others, they know what you love to eat and more.
If you were a spiritual grandmother, choosing a man for your granddaughter, what kind of guy would you choose?
See… You need to reclaim the good man you are inside. By first, overcoming sex addiction, then… cultivating good qualities like abstinence, centredness, patience; diligence, hard work, persistence; ingenuity, creativity, studiousness and more.
You can become the man you want to be if you work at it. You just have to be determined to succeed.
Now, let’s do an exercise. Write down in terms of qualities, what kind of man you want to be? A quality is like what I mentioned to you above:
abstinent
centered
patient
diligent
hard working
persistent
ingenious
creative
studious
You can have your own qualities. You just need to decide who you want to be and what kind of qualities does such a person have?
For example:
I want to be Rich! I want to be a Millionaire!
I want to have a super sexy girlfriend!
What kind of qualities does such a person have?
He is…
Enterprising
Smart
Self-Controlled
Ingenious
Hard Working
Studious
Creative
Technical
Romantic
Caring
Kind
etc.
(If you are like this… you bet her mother would love you — marry her daughter to you.)
What are your qualities you seek based on who you want to be?
Write it down.
Now… we will follow on with our mental programming exercise.
Mental Programming To Make You The Ultimate Man!
This technique comes from the skillset of Neuro Linguistic Programming. This subject has a history of being able to help people create rapid transformational change. I am a Master Trainer of Neuro Linguistic Programming. So… let’s try to work this magic. We can make you The Ultimate Man!
- Take the first quality on your list, and focus on the feeling.
- Express that feeling in body movements. (Usually expressed through your arms and torso movements.)
- As you do the body movement and focus on the feeling, you find that you can lock on to the essence of the energy of that state of mind.
- Anytime you need to re-energize yourself with this state, you repeat the body movement and focus on the feeling.
- REPEAT the focus and expression of the body movements with each quality on your list.
- Combine the body movements into one flowing dance — one chain of movements — one sequence. Focusing on the energy of the different qualities as you change movement.
- When you want to activate your Ultimate Man (give it your own name), you do the flowing movements and that will activate the qualities in you. Just do this once in the morning, and before any important task, activity, or project work. You will find your performance soars!
That’s it. You have completed Ultimate Man Programming.
Use Your Life Wisdom
We must be wise about our life. Some habits are no good for the child man inside you and will drive you down the spiral of life into a living hell. To rise up the spiral of life; to raise yourself to success — you must curb bad habits and foster good habits which lead you to better lifestyle choices, better decisions, better work attitude, better mindset, greater skill development, happier outlook, greater good fortune and good luck and so forth. It’s a simple choice to say no to the devil hiding inside you. Cast him out and protect yourself spiritually and psychologically from his insistence on staying in your body to possess you with sex addiction. You need to pray at holy places. You need to avoid the red light district. You need to practice the mindset you have learned here and apply it in your daily decision to avoid sex addiction and become the transformed new man you have always wanted to be. Ultimately, breaking free of sex addiction is a spiritual de-possession (exorcism) and a ‘lust control for success’ mindset that you must master. Listen to that audio above again. Master the exercises until it becomes your skill. Follow the steps to break free of sex addiction. And you’ll find…
Congratulations. You Are Free From Lust!
